for the first times in years I'm single. Im not a fan of this single life but maybe some of these answers will help. I would love to hear honest answers from single people and even those of you in relationships who would rather be single. Take into consideration that im 24 yrs. of age and Im not promiscuous.
2007-11-29 03:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THERE ARE SO MANY GREAT ANSWERS THAT MADE ME ACTUALLY FEEL HAPPY THAT IM SINGLE RIGHT NOW! WAY TO GO GUYS, I DONT KNOW WHICH ANSWER TO CHOOSE AS BEST! I gave thumbs up to my favs... :)
2007-11-29 05:24:55 · update #1
From a guys perspective, it may be a little different, but for one it is much much cheaper (lol pay for one not two) You have freedom to do what you want when you want and not have to worry about answering to anyone. You can hang out with your friends more often. Honestly, there are not that many perks because if you find the right person to be with most of the above mentioned perks (except for the one about being broke) are null and void. If you don't really like being single, don't try to be single. If you aren't sure about getting into a relationship, take it slow, don't go looking for anyone. I am single now, and honestly I liked being in a relationship much better. I went the first 22 years of my life without dating a soul, six months later, I am single again, and hate it. Before fell in love I really didn't mind being single, now it is the worst feeling. The key really is to do what your heart tells you, but honestly trying to find the right person seems to just get you hurt so don't try but keep an open mind. Good luck to you
2007-11-29 03:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by stormdog3269 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing I love most about being single is the feeling of freedom! I can do whatever I want whenever I want! I can go hang out with my friends without having to worry about my girlfriend getting mad about me staying out too late.
It's nice to be able to date girls and just have fun (and no I'm not promiscuous either). I can also do things that my ex wasn't interested in: like taking classes to learn new things (martial arts), doing other activities I enjoy (running), and travel (I plan to go somewhere out of the country this coming spring).
Another thing is I get the whole bed to myself although I did get used to having a warm body next to me. There are things I miss... but one of the things I don't miss is the "drama". No more arguments or fights over petty things. : )
2007-11-29 12:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Carpe DM™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being single has alot of perks, you dont have to worry about what you partner is doing.... there isnt any jealousy. you cant do whatever you want. you just have alot more freedom. I just got out of a long relationship and it sucks because im still not over her and it caused too much stress on me. im sure once im over her i will be lovin life :)
2007-11-29 11:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing what you want to do any and not having to answer to anyone. You don't have to fight about stupid things. I think it is easier to save money too. There are pros and cons to both being single and being married or in a relationship.
2007-11-29 11:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are free to date whomever you want. You can date multiple men if you choose. (No, I'm not talking about sleeping around, just dating.) If friends invite you to do something that you're interested in, you don't have to check in with your boyfriend first, in case he had plans for the two of you. There's no worries about whether your boyfriend will get along with your friends or if you'll get along with his. No worries about potential heartbreak or rejection. You can do what you want to do without having to juggle your time to fit in the boyfriend/girlfriend quality time.
These are just a few off the top of my head.
2007-11-29 11:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can watch Star Wars without some woman laughing at you and saying things like "No real man would watch that!"
2007-11-29 11:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perk is you can go out with your girl friends instead.
2007-11-29 11:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jimmy E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the freedom to make all of your choices.
you have the freedom to do and go where you want
you have the freedom of the whole bed
you have the freedom to be wise
love yourself first and you will be free to livre and love
2007-11-29 11:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by KC B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, I think the perks are you can do what you want all the time.. Email me
2007-11-29 11:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can do whatever u want when u want to w/out thinking about another person.
2007-11-29 11:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋