Why are Japanese men not interested in Japanese girls?

Question

Hi,
I work as an accountant in a resort in Krabi, Thailand. The resort is visited by many rich men from Japan, Singapore, India, Malaysia, etc. Most come with a girlfriend or mistress. We never ask unpleasant questions but we know what is going on looking at the condoms, room service orders, housekeeping activities. Some hire hookers locally. Some of my friends also visit such men off and on. I hate all men who buy sex and women who sell their bodies. But I have a question: I have never seen a Japanese man with a Japanese girlfriend/mistress. They prefer local girls or filipinas. Why, why, why!!! One Japanese man tried to date me and later told me that most Japanese women are also not interested in Japanese men. Can anyone explain this? Why do Japanese men have to look for girlfriends and mistresses outside Japan? Don't Japanese men and girls like each other?

Answer 1

Obviously these Japanese men are going oversea to buy sex, and why should still want to look for Japanese girl where they already have one at their own country?

Answer 2

Wow, what a question. Of course they do, the vast majority of Japanese men marry Japanese women. In a positive sense, though, Thai and Filipina women are much more friendly and kind in their manner than Japanese women. It's not that Japanese women are mean, it's just a cultural difference.

In a more negative light, there are plenty of Japanese ladies who play the role of mistress, but they're pretty expensive and demanding. They want brand bags and expensive French wine; in that sense the tastes of a Thai or Filipina may be a great deal cheaper.

Also, while in a foreign country, they don't have to worry as much about what other people think, many people do it in Thailand or in the Phillipines, it's more "accepted."

Answer 3

Just remember, you are meeting Japanese men in Thailand. If you are IN Japan, you will see Japanese men with Japanese women. Maybe they like Thai and Filipino girls because they make themselves available to Japanese men. Don't you see white men over there with Thai's as well?

Thailand has a reputation for offering so much sexual tourism so that's why men in general go there.

Answer 4

Maybe it's just an exagerated case of "when the cat is away the mice will play". Meaning, when they are away from home, they do things that they would not normally do at home. From what I've read, Japanese culture if fairly strict, and somewhat confining. So perhaps, in a resort in a foreign country, they feel freer to explore other options.

Answer 5

The reason is simple: Most j~ girls don't like J~ man. On a wealthy men dating site millionairecupid.com, I saw a dozen of japanese girls. All they need is wealthy men and sugar daddies. They want to relocate to US, CA, etc.

Answer 6

They want something different. A guy who has the same meal every night and goes to a restaurant won't order what he eats at home.
Now, American men - love Japanese women!

Answer 7

Quite an interesting observation on your part...lol

Historically, Japanese men prefer white blondes and large boobs...lol I can validate that from personal dealings with them over many years...

Even now, the most kidnapped girls of America and taken abroad are American blondes sent to Japan thru various misguided means of promises...

Instead, they are used, abused, sold and traded until their usefulness has worn thin and then they are placed as prisoners in slave factories working slave labour hours in exchange for food and a room that is locked with them inside until the next day of work... They may also be required to "entertain" street scum while locked in their room and if they refuse they will be severely punished... These factories also hold Japanese sluts and prostitutes and even some good folks that have lost everything because of disgrace in the family. They disappear from the lives of those they grew up with and the home once cared for...

That's the way it is...?

Japanese girls are mostly dark haired with small fragile bodies and breasts. Japanese laws will protect a Japanese girl moreso than a foreign girl in their country. Japanese men are considered "honourable" in Japan and with moral values. To desecrate a Japanese girl would be to desecrate his entire family of relatives as the family is blamed for his dishonour also...they would be shunned and lose their jobs, friends and means of support...

A Japanese man asked to date you...? Are you a Japanese girl...?

Japanese culture is changing as is the rest of the world and is where America was a century ago. Many Japanese girls have their husband chosen for them...even today...! As their culture changes, the modern girl seeks education and more of a position in her life and relationship because the old world culture viewed a wife as a servant with no demands and would be punished severely if not performing as told. This, in turn, would also bring disgrace upon her family which could open a path for shunning. If a Japanese man was to beat his wife for not serving him as he requested then he would be considered an honourable man...

These are the little tidbits of Japanese culture you won't find at prime time news, I assure you. By the way, these horror shops of slavery are not just abroad as we do have them in USA also...especially so in California...

For myself...I think those cute little dark haired Japanese girls look kinda sexy and most American blondes are really not blondes at all...WINK...!

Do hope this helps you understand...

Answer 8

Sawadii khrap, Khun Sharon,

The prefer locals because they can "pay for play" with no strings attached. Secondly, their wives would kill them if he did it at home.

Lastly, Thai pu-ying suay mak mak! Yippun, mai suay!
Mai pen rai!

Answer 9

I will nor believe that is true. The ones visiting ur resort cannot even make a % of the japanese population.

Answer 10

If your claim was true, there would be no Japanese here today. You are broadly stereotyping a race. Not cool.