while me and my bf are having sex and he is on top of me , he always looks down and just says your beautiful....there have been so many times i want him to tell me he loves me but he says im beautiful instead...i know its not a good idea to say your in love during sex, cuz thats the sex talking , but so many times i want to tell him, do you think he could feel the same
2007-11-29 02:38:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you guys tell each other that you're in love other times?
If so, just tell him what your needs are!
If not, then you'll have to get there first!
Good luck!
2007-11-29 02:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could feel the same way you do it all depends on how long the 2 of you have been together....don't push the word many guys have a phobia when it comes to saying that but if you do feel it try saying it in a why that is not so direct something like "i'm lucky to have found love in my life" or jokingly try "you know i love you" just to see his reaction but if you have been together under 1 year i personally would leave that alone, if your relationship is going well and sex and all that then don't stress too much on a word people put too much emphasis on a word that many times no one means
2007-11-29 02:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by marynigro13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, you are having sex with him because you love him, but he is a guy, guys think differently. A guys doesnt need to be "in love" to want sex. Guys are just horny.
Dont tell him you love him during sex. Instead tell him how you feel on a different occasion. Like invite him to dinner, or just sit with him on the porch, tell him how you feel, and tell him that you want to know if he feels the same. He might tell you that he does, just to keep having sex, so this is when you gotta use your noodle.
2007-11-29 02:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by pda_tech_guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot more information is needed to answer that question. How long have you been dating? Do you really know each other? Just because you're having sex doesn't mean a guys loves you unfortunately. And yes do not talk about it during foreplay, sex or right afterwards.... he is only thinking about one thing then.
2007-11-29 02:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by limabean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner is the same, he doesn't tell me he loves me during sex as he says then I might think it's not genuine but only being said because he's enjoying himself etc.
Some men just find it hard to say those three words, but there's other ways to know. Mine tells me he loves me but usually in a silly voice "I wuvvvvs ya" kinda thing, but I know he does love me by the way he gazes at me and I can see the love shining out of his eyes.
The best way of seeing it is that if he's one of those men who doesn't say I love you much, when he does, it'll be genuine and mean the world to you more than someone who says it constantly.
2007-11-29 02:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by einochi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I tell my gf she's beautiful during making love I really mean that I love her.
To men beautiful isn't only 'hot' or 'sexy'- it also includes a connotation of romantic attachment.
I once had sex with a callgirl. I would say she was hot and sexy, but beautiful wouldn't be the word I would choose.
2007-11-29 02:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should tell him whatever you feel at the moment!! Most guys want sex chat during sex so it may shock him! Say it in other ways!
2007-11-29 02:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are like that... sex is a physical activity and they see you beautiful...which could mean outer and inner...it's an expression of love and so he need not tell it in words... but you can try to tell him you would want to hear it from him during sex...
2007-11-29 02:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he tells you this cause he dosen't want to tell you that he loves you. This is just an easy way out for him. He might indeed care but nothing else just the sex talking
2007-11-29 02:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by tinybuddafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are cats, men are dogs...we do not speak the same language, we do not think the same way.
If he says "you're beautiful" during sex, shut up and enjoy it. He is giving you a compliment...and one without strings attached.
He'll tell you he loves you later....
2007-11-29 02:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋