Ladies how can we men tell that you are faking or not in bed?

Answer 1

well if your really bad and she's still going crazy that's a hint she's faking....other than that can't tell

Answer 2

hook us up to a polygraph lol bout the only way to prove we were faking! its so easy for a woman to fake as long as she does a good job of acting. BUT if u have a woman begging u to do something again that u have done before u can usually be assured its cus u did a gd job. If men dint take it so personally wen a woman doesnt orgasm too then women wud be more honest about it. Its a much more difficult thing to get a woman to orgasm (without battery powered help!) than it is to get a man to. Men shudnt feel so disappointed if they dont manage it. They shud just view it as a challenge to try to manage it next time! Its the womans job as well to let ya know what she does and doesnt enjoy so that u do it rite!! PS LOADS AND LOADS of constant cliteral stimulation helps but ask her to show you how she likes it all women are different but one thing remains the same. The clit is sensitive and if ya rub it wrong its gonna hurt and ur sex life is gonna be dead for days, weeks or even months! (rememeber u wudnt want us to be too rough and hurt ur pride and joy wud u??) LOL find a partner where theres loads of trust and honesty and confidence between u and it makes all of this alot easier.

Answer 3

I wouldn't worry yourself about it too much, even if I don't climax I still have a fantastic time and get great pleasure.

It is pretty hard to tell, sometimes I come so close that I get a lot of the signs, erect nipples for example happen just when i'm turned on! The flushed face and dilated pupils can still happen without climax, and trust me its not hard to fake the 'juddering' contractions that happen.

If you really wanna make us climax, your gonna have to spend a long time on foreplay, being gentle but persistent. Just ask her 'tell me what feels good.' But DONT say 'have you come yet, I want you to come' because the more pressure we're under, the less likely we will beable to.

Answer 4

Virtually all women will tell you that it is impossible for the man to tell, but that's not quite true. In the course of the female climax, the woman, similar to a man, ejaculates, but not in the form of sperm, but fluid. This eases the passage for the male sperm to the ovaries.

Some women only ejaculate a little and here is would be extremely difficult to tell. However, others are quite copious in their fluid output and there you will know that she is definitely not faking!

Like most things, experience counts - and practice makes perfect!

Answer 5

you cant tell and thats a good thing! if you suspect your lady is faking it and you've a close relationship you could ask her, tell her you want to make absolutly sure that shes enjoying the physical side as much as you!

I have always faked it as i would never want whoever im with to think that im not interested in them and dont want them to feel like they've let me down! be gratful if you think shes faking, at least she cares enough to bother!

Answer 6

If she goes to the loo straight afterwards looking frustrated, she's doing to herself what you couldn't manage. In a real orgasm, women tend to shudder involuntarily and most of our bodies contract, and then we get boneless and sleepy, just like men. If she's hyper after and wanting you to touch her again, she probably didn't come.

Best thing to do is to make sure you are paying attention to her clit as 80% of women cannot come from penetration alone.

Answer 7

Ladies, you are deceiving yourselves. Dilated pupils, erect nipples, pink flush to the face, neck and chest and finally, impossible to fake juddering contractions.
And why would you want to fake it anyway?It's better to educate your own bodies and enjoy yourselves rather than waste your time boosting our egos.

Answer 8

Thats something you gotta learn from experience! I don't like to fake so it would be easy to tell if I ever did!!

Answer 9

you aint supposed to know,if shes keeping you on to see if you get better and you dont she will dump u,so smarten up that tounge find the spot and realy send her to paradise.

Answer 10

Wouldn't tell you 'cos it would leave you in bits!