I found out that this girl might have said something unfavorable towards me,and she did someunfavorable things(some bordering on racial)i in turn,berated her verbally,asked her age forcefully (out of sarcasm),played numerous mind games with her,forced her out of the gym a couple times and just all around was a nuisance(i was pissed).Should i be ashamed?
2007-11-29 02:19:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask the OLD "frank" - he's SURE to know.....either that or marvin, greg and all the others - and I see Harvey's about again too so no doubt we're in for yet another round of the old OLD O L D questions over and OVER and O V E R again.
2007-11-29 21:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by nosmo king 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're not really sure she deserved all of that, and if it's revealed that she was the innocent victim of gossip and conjecture, how do you propose to make all of that up to her? Secondly, suppose you were right about her...revenge as a strategy has an extremely brief shelf-life where it's actually effective; after that it sets about the task of doing in the host that created it. I'm not a fan of revenge for just this reason. You don't want to have sprang into action because she "might" have said something unfavorable that "bordered" on something racial. That's too much uncertainty to live with. In general, "lift where you stand..." is a better motto for day-to-day living; it has more karmic integrity to it. Pissed or not, in the future be very sure of what you're doing.
2007-11-29 02:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should always respect women, if she did some things that were unfavorable just approach in a calm manner. Never Berate anyone. You must feel a little guilty because you are asking this question. Treat others as you would want to be treated.
2007-11-29 02:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by boucho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you stooped to her level. Clearly she is of low intelligence and not worthy of you and probably the best thing you could do is to ignore her but if she crosses your path again then act with dignity and politeness - idiots such as racists, bigots, etc really don't know how to react to that
2007-11-29 02:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by mark_2005_london 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah....grow up.. asking her age while you're acting like that is a bit rich dont you think..playing mind games aint big or clever you should be throughly ashamed of ya self
2007-11-29 02:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by womble 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should.
Doing those things won't change her being a racist.
Next time, take the high road. Unfortunately, ignorance will surround us no matter what (racist people)> Sad but true.
She prob feels very stupid now (which is good).
2007-11-29 02:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you got down to her level of stupidity . You should of been the better person ,who cares what this idiot said about you .Good Luck .
2007-11-29 02:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ana C pisces1976 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be very ashamed i had the same thing done on me
and it shattered my confidence and pride
i felt so worthless so go and try undo the harm you done her
2007-11-29 02:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by mirrorbee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, doing those things probably made her think even less of you. So how did that really help things?
2007-11-29 03:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you were wrong! What are you a bully?
Hope it didn't make you feel good.
Suppose you think you sound like something special? No chance.
2007-11-29 02:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋