How long should I leave it for this guy to call?...he's just asked me to be his girlfriend so I don't wanna leave it & forget. If he doesn't call for whatever reason shall I leave it or text & ask him exactly what he wants because I don't wanna be strong along. We haven't been seeing eachother lately because he has "a lot on his mind" he asked me out a week ago! How long is reasonable to wait? should I text?
He's my friend that i;ve known for around 2 years
should I text?
2007-11-29 02:06:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't want to see you or be with you after he wants to be a boyfriend, he can't be trusted. Perhaps keep in contact but leave the boyfriend issue off the table.
2007-11-29 02:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its been a week then yes you should talk to him especially since you have been friends for a couple of years. I think its time since you were friends to ask him what was on his mind and find out if he was having second thoughts about having you or anybody for that matter as a girlfriend right now. It really sucks when someone you care about has made no effort to talk to you in a while and it hurts as well so just get it over with and find out whats going on , you will feel better and probably sleep better as well.
2007-11-29 10:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by BILL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long ago did you last speak to him? if it was today or yesterday then give it until the weekend and if he hasnt contacted you then phone/text him and find out whats going on. you dont deserve to be treated like this, especially as you have known him for quite a while he should be honest with you. if it was a few days ago then try now, you never know until you try and youll just case yourself more stress. i hope it all works out good in the end.
2007-11-29 10:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by * Mummy to 2 Girls * 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the line of communication open. A text message every now and then should be acceptable to anyone. Just do not try to pry an answer out of him. Let him know that you are there for him.
2007-11-29 10:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ultraviolet Oasis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont text! where has proper communication gone!
Give the guy a call, dont pressurise him, just call for a chat to see if he is ok and dont go on about yourself and how you are feeling.It might make him feel rubbish that he has been neglecting you and may add to his troubles. He is probably having a tough time about something and just needs some support. Give it time, give him a sympathetic ear and go from there.
good luck
2007-11-29 10:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by Keeliewheeliebin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is simply text this
i no you are stressed and there is alot going on. i am not gonna look for another bf im in no hurry to have to be in a relationship right now. so take the time you need and no im a phone call away if you need anything
2007-11-29 10:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him. At least you'll know where you stand. But don't ask him out, just send a friendly message and see what happens. Don't push him - keep your dignity. Sounds like he might be seeing someone already?
2007-11-29 10:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just text him and see whats up, you guys have been friends so you should be able to tlk 2 him, and if ot you guys should not be going out.
2007-11-29 10:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Blond3 BombShell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until he contacts you. If a while has passed, I would ask what's going on because I wouldn't want to be waiting in background either.
2007-11-29 10:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times the best thing to do is leave him alone let him figure out what is is that he needs to do. He will call.
2007-11-29 10:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋