Yesterday I was trying to ck my e-mail on Yahoo on my BF pc but he was sign in already. I found his profile on yahoo personals and I didn't know that he had one. We just move in together to NC and his Profile said New in the area any tour guides? I felt so mad and sad at the same time I waited for him to get home and I asked him. He told me that he posted that long time ago because he was already planning to move to NC because he met a girl before meeting me down here, howeve I never knew about this other person and I had no clue that she lived in the same area. Now I feel that I can not trust him Why didn't he say abything about this other women before is he lying ?? what is going on? I need some comments on this I don't know what to do
2007-11-29 01:43:01 · 9 answers · asked by Nathalie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. You have a big problem. All i suggest is talk to him. tell him you cant trust him until he tells the truth about this woman. I have never been in this type of situation before so i don't no what to tell you. If you cant trust the person your with, you need to go work on this. Ask people that can help you guys. Someone who can get you thou things like this. I'm sure you guys will have other bumps in the road so just be prepared. And if that doesn't work, i would dump him.
xoxo Elizabeth
2007-11-29 01:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many or even most people have romantic pasts- you probably do too, right? You may or may not have discussed old BF's with your current BF, for whatever reasons. Only he knows how serious he was with this other woman......and if he moved to NC because of her, or because he liked the area. I'd talk to him a bit more, but for now, would be inclined to take his word at face value. He had the profile on yahoo personals before he met you, so that's not relevant to you. He may not have felt this girl was a "big deal" so he didn't talk about her as an ex. I'd be cautious but not necessarily negative.
2007-11-29 09:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't like the sound of this. you must be with each other a while to be living together and he never told u about this girl!
i think he might be lying too, that is the worst thing about the net,, you never know what people are doing on it!
2007-11-29 09:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by irish.cadyboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez... He did have a life before you came around, and he may have had it up. So what if this girl is in the area, I bet there are hundreds of girls in the area, you moved in with him not her, is he being gone and not comin home , is he calling girls or spending tons of time on the personals sites? Take a pill and chill let things coast and I bet you got nothing to worry about.
2007-11-29 09:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont get it. He's just asking for a tour guide. Maybe its for you and him. Give him a chance and let him explain.
2007-11-29 09:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by starsz1621 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no he is lying
2007-11-29 09:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what's neccesary
2007-11-29 09:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out more.. he is lying again..
2007-11-29 09:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
def lying!!
2007-11-29 09:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋