pros & cons?
2007-11-29 01:39:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No pros just cons. Mommy has too much control.
2007-11-29 01:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lollipops 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
a pro would be that the person wouldn't really have any debt another would be that the person would be more loving and caring
a con would be that he would be totally relient on you if you two ever moved together and another would be that he probably doesn't really know how to do anything or even don't want to he will do this only because hes had his mother all his life doing it for him if you do take him you just do me a favor make sure your strict a strong enough to handle whatever he throughs at you it will be tough at first but if you get him into shape by being patient while teaching him the roads of life it should be fine i wish the very best to i hope everything works out!
2007-11-29 09:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by :( life is a bitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there arent' too many pros but alot of cons like if u 2 have a fight or disagree on something he will run to his mommy and she will give him advice on it. he will want u to just like his mom and she will always be in ur business. I dated one for almost 5 yrs and trust me his mom was always in our business and when he went and got a girl pregnant she was happy about it and didn't care that i was hurt. I feel for u. Mama's boys never do anything wrong in there mothers eyes. MY ex's mom didn't see what he did wrong when he cheated and made that baby with the other girl. I don't get why she was so supportive but she was. She acted like I should step out of the picture and let them to be together which is what i eventually did b/c i couldn't take it anymore. just be careful ok.
2007-11-29 09:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevilsgirl07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom married a true "mommy's boy." I don't see ANY pros. He's lazy and messy. He got so use to his mom taking care of him that he expected my mom to do the same thing for him.
I'm sure everyone's different and so is every situation. Talk to him and discuss the future. Maybe you'll find out he's not as dependent on his mom as it appears.
2007-11-29 09:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in for a Hell of a good time, No wait, you are just in for Hell. Yep, nothing like mommy to come a running to save her little baby boy everytime something goes wrong. I would recommend finding a man that still isn't attached to his mommys nipple.
The pros... hmmmm.... let me know if you find any because I can't think of one.
2007-11-29 09:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My bf is kinda a momma's boy and it can get annoying. They tend to ask questions and advice from their moms. Jealousy on your part can happen as well. You would rather them come to you then their mom....
Although, they are very loving and respectful to women. I couldn't ask for a better guy. Mama's boys have an understanding of your feelings and are always there for you to lean on.
All and all....I think the pro's outweigh the con's.
2007-11-29 09:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by **In Love** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a mommy's boy? well, he won't be able to support you, that's for sure. Then again, it really depends cause if he's close with his mom he would know how to treat a woman right. So why not just date him and find out the answer to this question.
2007-11-29 09:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by shredder87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a mommas boy.
Pros's- It's good that a man has a great relationship with their mother. It shows how he will treat you.
Con's- He compares you to his mom, which is not good. And if you have a x mother in law like mine, she will be all in your business. More than likely he tells his mom EVERYTHING.
Beware. . .
2007-11-29 09:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Chartise 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mama's boys are not what you want, trust me. Their are more cons than pros.
Pros-They are affectionate, you can talk to them, they can give you advice on your clothes, alot of them know how to be romantic, some can cook and really clean house.
Cons- They are not very mature, they chose mama over you and what she says is law, they feel obligated to her, moms make fools out of them, alot of times moms end up taking care of their babies, let me not forget that they tell everything and they are always defending her. Also, most live at home.
2007-11-29 09:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Dymond 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pro - He's got a bit of a sensitive side
Cons - You can barely drag him away from his mother
-If she doesn't like you, or if you do anything wrong, you're gone.
-He always picks up the phone when she calls, at the most inappropriate times
-You may hear "But my mom said..." A LOT
2007-11-29 09:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋