would you move to a different state for love? your chances that she or he would accept you are 50% 50% the thing is would you give up everything you have for someone you really really love?..... someone who you seriously think that you wanna be the rest of your life with.....I'm in that situation right now.... i mean she doesnt give me hope but she doesnt take the chances away...she says that i will have to be patience, that i would have to give her time, that i would have to work really hard to get her back..... and besides.......here is the thing...we have a baby.....she's 3 years old....we are not together cause she moved to another state..i wanna be with my baby and her..well its a long story....but that's not the point...the point is would you move for love if someone tells you that you have to give her or him time and all that stuff......hope you guys understand....
2007-11-28 17:48:48 · 6 answers · asked by Shadow777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her parents moved so her parents took her with them.... she was very young so was i......its been more than 3 years now
2007-11-29 08:22:13 · update #1
Yep I'm about to switch colleges and move to a new state to be with the love of my life. Sometimes if you just don't take that chance your left wondering the rest of your life WHAT IF.
2007-11-29 01:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I'm willing to share my experience with you. I knew this lady (my dream girl, a nurse) for around 2 weeks.
Oftenly, I do blind date to know new friends as most of my current friends were married.
However never ever in my life I felt so special about an acquaintance on the first date. I received a kind of special feeling from her while having dinner that evening. When I reached home after a gathering with my buddies, moments of the dinner date kept flashing in my mind which gave me insomnia over two nights. I realised I was think of her every now and then and was trying to understand her better.
I'm a straight forward person so I told her I likes her days later. She told me to give her some time & I'm trying to understand her more right now. For the past weeks, I send & pick her to/from work whenever I can. I then realised when I'm learning now is courting. I gave up my thoughts of being a bachelor for the next years because I came to know her. I did everything because of her even though I had never know how to do so in the past. I'm willing to scarifice when I knew I would not be able to have enough rest or would fall sick.
Some says I'm stupid but I'm doing all this because I saw the future happiness in her smile & I wanna to be with her the rest of my life. GOOD LUCK!!!
AGML
2007-11-29 02:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was for the one I loved yes. Even if she needs time. Because in the mean time you could be close to your daughter and develop a relationship with her. Plus your ex can tell that you really want to be there. Other wise she might not think that you really want to be with her and she will move on. At least it's 50/50 right now. And if she doesn't then at least you are near your daughter.
2007-11-29 02:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by mystyghost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move, because if you want the best for your child sometimes you have to sacrifice a few things for yourself, talk to her about the idea more in depth
2007-11-29 01:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by BrookeTay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if time is what she ask for..then..give it to her.. don't make decision that u will regret later...yes u love her..yes u wanna be with her and ur child..but wat's the point if that is not wat she wants?? maybe u can go n see her..once in a while.. give her time.. don't push her to make up her mind..just show her u love her.. maybe one day she'll change her mind...
2007-11-29 01:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by aYuNi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she moved to another state to get away.
2007-11-29 01:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by gmosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋