my baby father is in germany how can i get him to do a DNA test if hes in the military....?

Question

he accepts my son he sign his birth paper but not my daughter shes around the same age as my son but he wouldn't accept her because of his wife.....any one know were this is located in NYC ......the Department of Revenue’s Child Support Enforcement ....and yes i have his information were he is

he accepts my son is two and his father sign his birth paper but not my daughter shes around the same age as my son shes 1 years old but he wouldn't accept her because of his wife.....any one know were this is located in NYC ......the Department of Revenue’s Child Support Enforcement ....and yes i have his information were he is

Answer 1

hey,im with the forces too. do you know exactly where in Germany and do you know his regiment or the name of the barracks? you could get in contact with the Welfare Office there

if not then try it with csa. they should be able to find out. it would help a lot if you could tell them in which regiment he was before, so they can get detailed infos about his whereabouts now

Answer 2

Well if your needing DNA that says one or two things , my guess is that he has denied that he maybe the father of your child correct? Ok so yes Soldiers have DNA on file , but* your going to have to get a Judge to give that order and the military doesnt pay for it, it will come out of the pocket of the Soldier. You need to get a good Lawyer and if you cant afford one I suggest going to the Department of Revenue’s Child Support Enforcement ... they may be able to assist you, all you need is the Father's info and they will do the rest, its easier to locate him because he is in the Military, once they have a court date will be set and the Judge will hear both sides, and then the Judge will decide if he must submit a DNA test.
My husband had a Soldier in same boat when we were in Germany, turned out the baby wasnt his.
Wish you luck regardless of what happens be the best mom you can be to your child!
Soldier& Mother of 3

Answer 3

You're going to have to get a court order and take it to the local JAG office. The military cannot release any information provided by the privacy act without that order.

Getting a court order my be harder than you think though. What evidence do you have that this Soldier is your baby's father?

Good luck.

Answer 4

you are required to have a court order. without it, he can refuse.

Once you have it, contact his command and they will make sure it is enforced.

for the ones asking why: simple.. without proof of paternity, she cannot get child support and the military will NOT allow the child to get any medical benefits. All he has to do is say he ain't the Father, and that's it.. even his name on the BC will not necessarily be enough proof for the military or child services.

Answer 5

Call Maury Povich.

Answer 6

I agree with an earlier responder why do you need DNA if you know he's your baby's father???? you either played the field behind his back, or want a divorce or something else. You don't mention why?????

Answer 7

Leave him alone, our government checks aren't big enough for you to gold dig. If you have been a good girl you would already know he was the father. If you have been sleeping around its up to him to take you back.

Answer 8

You said he is your baby's father, so why do you need a DNA test. Have you been doing horizontal dances where you are not supposed to????

Answer 9

Whoever gave Greg the thumbs down is ignorant and shouldn't be posting in this section, because he's correct.

Answer 10

if he is in the military then as part of processing he has already done a DNA test. his results would be a matter of record. all it would take is for you to have the lawyer get the results through the freedom of information act