2007-11-27 16:13:27 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do Love him moer than anything.
2007-11-27 17:20:12 · update #1
It's not that thay don't like him it's that thay don't think his right for me.
Oh yeah Im 21 (bring it on).
I love him moer then anything.
I just hope thay know what I gave up for them.
2007-11-27 17:40:11 · update #2
I'v come to find that he wos not right for me to.
But thank you all for you answers
2007-11-29 07:12:18 · update #3
Yes and No.
Normally our parents know us best and usually have our best interests at heart. Therefore, it is wise to listen to them.
Did you all sit down and discuss it?
Do you know why they wanted the break?
How do you feel about the decision?
Do you agree with the reasons they gave you?
Did you have any counter arguement other than " But I like him" ?
These are all questions that will tell you something about yourself in this particular situation and it would be good for you to answer them honestly before embarking on a new relationship. It will have been a invaluable learning experience for you if you know yourself that much better through this upset..
You don't seem to be overly perturbed by the breakup as you ask only if it was a dumb thing to do. At the back of your mind, did you harbour your own suspicions that a change may be good for you?
The No part of my answer involves you being able to make your own decisions to be an adult. I do not know your age or other circustances so I give only a general rule. When we make a decision we have to live with it mistakes and all. Marriage involves a husband and uaually children. This means that a relationship break up hurts others as well as yourself. Consequently, it is good to give youself plenty of opportunities to work out how well each partenership works in both good and bad times.
I wish you every joy in this exciting time in your life. I also wish you courage in your down times. Just remember they are there to make you wise enough to guide your future teen agers through these same difficulties.
2007-11-27 16:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it wasn't dumb. Parents can usually spot problems before their kids can. They've been through life a little more than you. There must be a reason they don't like him.
Trust them on this. They want better things for you. In time you can make your own decisions but for now just trust them.
I know it's hard but in the long run you'll be happier and safer.
Sounds to me that you are one of the lucky ones who have 2 parents and they care about you and your future.
Forget the other advice. No body likes you and cares more for you than intelligent parents.......You'll thank them in the long run....As much as I hate to say it, they're the best friends you've got. They have NO ulterior motive, except for your happiness in the years ahead.
2007-11-27 16:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes very dumb. Don't you have your own life? Are you still living "under your parents' roof" in your mind?
Let them go, at some point. They won't be here forever, and you're going to need to make decisions on your own for when they aren't there to tell you what to do.
In life you need to make your own mistakes, your own decisions. You should always take their advice into consideration but make sure you will be happy in the long-run when all is said and done.
2007-11-27 16:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Loving Life 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its all in you girl maybe ur are greatly influenced by your parents that why ur under them. yes it depends on the age. for some time your not mature enough to handle or stand up to be independent its just a matter of emotional maturity and the way you deal to things.
2007-11-27 16:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your mom and dad are not the ones dating him. what are their reasons for not liking him? if it is because he treats you bad then you did the right thing. if they really dont have a reason then you don't break up with someone just because they want you to.
2007-11-27 16:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by luciousgreeneyedlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are.If you live under their roof, you may have to abide by their rules. They can't really tell you what you feel in your heart though
2007-11-27 16:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so, you sound young, it is good that you realize you have to respect your parents.... it will get you far with them in the long run.
good for you
2007-11-27 16:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by popofosho 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really had loved him, which i think in your case you didnt since you dumped him just like THAT
2007-11-27 16:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by young 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you truly felt about him.
2007-11-27 16:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask your parents why they didn't like him?
2007-11-27 16:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋