how tell people i want to be a vegitarian?

Question

i dont just want somebody to hand me a plate and be like ...oh by the way. and im also worried about what people will say because i have heard alot of people talk about how they dont like vegitarians ,even if they dont have a reason. i would just not rather offend anyone while i do it because i would like to stick to this

Answer 1

You really don't have to tell anybody. It's your diet and nobody else's business. Gracious hosts and others will ask you first anyway so just ell them what you want. If they ask why you are only eating veggies then tell them, if they don't then don't. And many really won't care. As fo those who would criticize you outright, ignore them. Or tell them something like "...thank you for telling me your views on this, now please pass the carrots..". No point in getting into a debate that nobody is bound to win anyway.

PS I am not a vegetarian but I will not criticize you for your choice. But if you start preaching to me about it, then we will have a problem. Otherwise, enjoy your veggies and I will enjoy my steak AND veggies. Live and let live.\
Please note that many people will be more curious than critical as this will be "unsuual" for them. Expect to be the "circus geek" for a period while those around you adjust. it would be like dyeing your hair blonde if you are a lifetime brunette.. But after that, it should not be a problem.

Answer 2

You will find people who will argue with you about it, also people may talk about killing animals and stuff just to get a rise out of you. When I became a veg. I was shocked at how others treated me because of it, I still am. I just try not to let others know I am a vegetarian if I can. I sometimes just tell people that I don't like the taste of meat and that is why I am a vegetarian, they seem to take that easier than saying I care about animals or it is healthier or whatever. Just be prepared to catch some flack, Good Luck to Ya!

Answer 3

Ultimately you are the only one who has to approve of your decision. You don't need to call up everyone you know and announce your intention to become a vegetarian. Just stop eating meat and, when it comes up and is relevant, let people know. If you feel strongly about it you can't worry that the mere absence of meat in your diet will offend people. Don't cultivate offense by being one of those vegetarians who judges people for eating meat, but don't worry about people who are determined to disapprove regardless of how accepting you are of them. That's about them, not you.

Answer 4

Just tell them. I'm not a vegetarian and don't understand why someone would choose that, but I am still respectful of those who do make that choice. If you know you're going to be having a meal at someone's home, be sure to let them know in advance so they can have something you can eat. I'm always happy to accommodate the dietary needs of my family and friends. It doesn't matter to me if it's because of food preferences or particular health needs (allergies, diabetes, etc.) Your family and friends probably will be, too.

Answer 5

Then refer to yourself as a "healthy eater" to those who you feel may be "stuck up" on the title "vegetarian".

All you have to say is, "thank you, I don't eat meat", and if they ask why, just say you don't really care for the taste.

All good ways to avoid being pegged a "tree hugging hippie" and an "animal lover" and all the other derogatory names people call vegetarians.

Answer 6

If you ever get invited to someone's house, then when RSVPing, just say "oh by the way, I'm vegetarian now". That's really the only time you need to inform anyone.

Answer 7

Tell them BEFORE you go over to dinner. Tell them when you make plans. That's really important. People get embarrassed and feel badly when they serve a vegetarian meat, and the veggie feels badly, too. Just avoid the awkwardness.

Give them a heads-up, offer to bring a dish of your own, and no problem.

Answer 8

This is YOUR choice not theirs. Don't worry about what people think or say. It may be awkward at first explaining or having to turn down meals. But as w/everything else, it will get better w/practice - you'll get better in these situations.

Answer 9

i just tell people if they take me out to dinner i'm a vegitarian. its like i'm a lactose intolerant or i'm illerlic to nuts. its just you have sertain food prefeces. if they're offered, so what just say the come back " i dont ask you why you eat meat, so dont ask me why i don't" good luck.

Answer 10

My wonderful little niece is a vegetarian. She just smiles and says no thank you to meat and she orders what she likes. Just be yourself and show them, and no need to explain.