We are in touch for two years via email and tell things and ask each other lots of different questions about each other. And each time we get fonder of the other! What does it mean? (we want to meet but have not yet due to busy schedules) Is it a relationship? What is it?
2007-11-14 23:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by bunny rabbit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Bunny,
It means you made connection online. You have an online relationship that you love. You see relationships can be categorized in so many different ways. You have a workout relationship and buddy, you have work relationship and buddy...and in your case, you have an online relationship and a buddy.
To make the change for this relationship to make it real, you must meet and more than once or twice, you must travel together, only then you can tell how the real person is. Anyone can say anything online. I do wish you good luck and best of the outcomes, however it is no guarantee that it will work in any other form but the way it is. Online friendship and connection.
2007-11-22 20:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in fact, i dont know whether it is a relationship as i am facing this problem.!!!!!!!!!!!!!But i am lucky as we are in touch via meeting but the meeting is not regular and the frequency is less then before. So i absolutely know what problem you face.
i sometime met them for having lunch together but they rejected due to busy schedules. For me, i understand their action as they may be really busy. they are not my classmates now. And they should accustom to live a new school. it is essential to go the meetings with their new friends. you want they are happy, isn't it?
For your problem, each time we get fonder of the other. i think it is not a problem as well. as they need to survive in new condition, they first need to build up a good friend network. and the friend relationship between you and them is already built well. So they will meet their new friends rather than meeting you. So it is acceptable than they rejected you so often.
However, their feeling is uncertain. the preference of choosing to meet you is not observable. Maybe they hate you now..!!!So you should ask them directly whether they still are your friends. (In truth, my suggestion is not good enough since i have not used to ask them. Being a Friend you ought to trust them wholly without hesitation.)
Generally speaking, to a large extent, i think they are still your friends. you are not allowed to prevent them to enlarge their friend networks. The only thing is that trust them. Even i am living in this suituaiton, i still trust them heavily as i think friendship should be forever. Bygones is not exactly bygones as we are human , an emotive aninal. Therefore, i suggest you should give confident yourself because they are also human as well as they are really being your friends in a period of time.
2007-11-15 00:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by blizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well people change over the years, and maybe ur growing together. i knw what ya mean about distance relationships, i was in one about 2 years ago. we were friends (liek u are) to start off with, then we got to knw more about eachother, then eventually went out for about 3 months. it did not last long.
if ur growing fonder of eachother, i dont think ull ever knw or b ready to start a relationship until u actually see them. thaTS wen u will know if the feelings are real. or u culd simply ask them how they feel. get the truth out strait away.
Good Luck!
2007-11-14 23:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change over the years. You would need to get together with this person again to see if the spark is still there before determining whether it could be a relationship or not.
2007-11-14 23:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friends i think..it is very nice that u r in touch for 2 years..go ahead
2007-11-14 23:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by adrulear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋