Many of you are so good at heart, polite & loving in Y/A. Are you the same in Real life?

Question

It is strange but true:

I find many of my answerers “Anu, Sallu, Smiley, Geisha, Beauty Queen, Linda, LarryM, God’s child, Renu, CuteGal Rockz, kookakoolagoo, Jody, Cool Indian, Manchu, Sargam, Lovely Soul, (and others)” (please don't mistake if I missed any - as I am writing this fast to address a topic)

To be so :

 Polite
 Lovable
 Intelligent
 Caring
 Without ego
 Appreciative
 Mature
 Kind
 Bold
 Social
 Energetic
 Romantic
 Optimistic
 Willing to change
 & Good in heart

If someone posses these characteristics, they should be doing great in their life. Everyone would be compelled to love them.

Many are changing drastically, acquiring more and more maturity and becoming great individuals from Y/A perspective.

However, when I talk to them about their life, I find it strange. Some youngsters say that their parents are rude to them. Some say their friends don’t like them. Some say, someone doesn’t love them.

Someone left them.

My question now is. Are you the same (in real life) what you project yourself in Y/A.

When you are so much flexible here in Y/A, why you are not flexible in real life.

When you can listen to some stranger and change, why you cannot listen to your loved ones.

Are you listening to your parents? Are you polite to people around you? Are you sarcastic in life, how is it affecting others? Are you egoistic in real life? Are you good to your partners? Are you really loving, caring, kind and polite?

All of the above characteristics are hiding in you which I found them here in Y/A. COM’ on expose them in real life. Express yourself. Trust me everyone would die to love you. Everyone around you would change.

According to me, you are the most lovable person. I am happy and gifted to be in touch with you all.

Goodness is the true manifestation of god himself. I see so much of goodness in you all, i.e., I see him in you all.

You start seeing them in everyone around you. Extract the goodness in each and everyone around you.

To achieve this, you should kill your ego.

Become more humble and honest……

Nothing should shake you

You should always be smiling, laughing and loving

This is the true spiritual progression….

I am on the path of my spiritual progression, however almighty doesn’t like that. He never likes anyone who is selfish.

We should carry good hearts along with us in spiritual progression….

When all good hearts together progress in spirituality, it is the true pilgrimage

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Whenever I write something like this, many feel that I am personally targeting someone. Trust me, these are general quotes I am addressing everyone.

For someone, it may not hold good. It is for those, whom it may concern.

A true self analysis would give you the answer, whether I talking about you or someone else.

If it is not you, then give your tips to others.

How did I miss “lalachi, ash, Cute&Cool Indian, bollywoodfan#1, homecoming queen<3”

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Don’t forget to star if you like this question ... Hey this is only a reminder, not a request.

Answer 1

Wow ! Thanks gentleman !!! I don't know whether all of those adjectives really describe me, but hey I am glad that u think so !

Well I am who I am no matter whether I am online or not. And I bet u probably know that. I am cranky some days and other days I am super emotional. Then there are other days, where i am super duper nice, caring and amazing. It all depends upon my mood. I never hide anything other than my identity from y/a answers. I am being honest here. I reveal a lot about my personality here in y/a than anywhere else.

People are usually not rude to me, surprisingly, because I think to cope up with me a person needs a lot of patience. ( well that is what I think, but I don't know, i guess others have to judge me on that). I think I am flexible here in y/a and anywhere else. i always change 4 good. I really do. I listen to what my parents and my relatives tell me. I am always willing to change if i think I need to change. And I bet u know that.

I do listen to my parents. I am pretty sarcastic in real life, well with the people that I am real close 2, like my friends. I am sometimes sarcastic toward my parents, but I don't think sometimes they like it, but sometimes my sarcastic jokes make the best dinner conversations.

I am loving caring and nice in real life too,. I always try to be a good role model for my sister. I show maturity when I am required too. Well sometimes I can be overly matured. I guess that is good in some aspects in life. I talk to elders with repect ( well except to u, since u r always 2 years younger than me HEHHE! )

I think I expose my real self here in y/a and that is the reason why I made a lot of friends here. I think since I am honest to myself here, I got a lot of honest friends who admire and accept me 4 who I am.

Glad to know that u that u see god in me. I don't know whether I am that great, but I guess that is what I am striving for, to be a godly child, who makes her parents happy, who help everyone around, who tries to be a role model for everyone !

I think that fact that I am honest here in y/a made me change in life a lot. To me y/a is personally a place where i could make changes, where I could find out where are the holes that I have in life, and learn what is it that I still have to work on !! And wonderful people like u, make show that to me and that is the reason why I still stay here in y/a. And i love positive changes. i really do ! i am willing to make any sacrifice 4 that. I guess in order to do that I have to be honest to myself. Just like u said one day, we all could have made fake id's and pretend like we r somone else. But i don't think that is worth anything. i really don't. I guess other than giving my true identity, I am pretty honest here in y/a. i am myself, I am who I am. I don't know whether i am all that amazing or what not, but for sure, I am here with an open heart to change. And the fact that i am honest here is very important to me and all my fans who r most sincere and honest to me !

Answer 2

dE@r gEnTLe m@n,

I have always been a person what i am at my heart. I always speak that only which i think is correct. But i do hide my feelings. Inside me there is another sallu and outside me is another{only in feelings, emotions}.

I always carry a positive attitude towards life. Before i use to care a lot but now i have an attitude that i REALLY DONT CARE.

But gentle man, fact is the fact. Some parents might be really wayyyyyyy toooo rude to their children. Some might not love. Some might always insult etc.

I have undergone very bad expereinces in my life. And you know what??? I think all these bad experiences made me gain a positive attitude towards life.

I have always been very loving with everyone, but some people are really not worth your love. They might be anyone, your parents, your partner, your colleagues, your friends anyone.

I always had bad experiences with my parents. I never loved them. But now when i bear the concept that, spread love and in return you'll get love. I spread love. But you know what gentle man. I have still not got love in return.

But still i'll not lose hope. I'll try because i think if my mom would have been with me, the she would have given me the same teachings as you have given.

So now i carry a very carefree attitude. I think that's the only thing which will benefit me...tc...sweet dreamz...bye....

*****dO wh@tEvEr yOuR hE@rT $@yZ....*****.

Answer 3

What you are referring to is integrity.
It's easy to present the truth on the Internet where no eyes can see the life one truly lives. But to live that truth is a different story. It means committing one's self to change of character which is one of the most difficult things for an individual to face.

Answer 4

No I am more polite in real life then here

Answer 5

I am me. i am exactly the same where ever i may be. I always see good in people and would never harm or be rude to anyone.I will defend myself and others without being offensive or aggressive. I am easily hurt by others but soon get over it.. I feel that i am lucky . i like your question. Take care .

Answer 6

I am what I am, in real life as well as on y/a. Good or bad, I don't know, but I try to be honest in whatever I do or say.

But the principles that you are following and trying to inculcate amongst your fans and contacts are truly astounding.
Who said Mahatma Gandhi is irrelevant in the modern era?
You are practising and professing "Gandihigiri" in its truest form.
Well done and keep it up!! We are with you.

Answer 7

thank u soooo much!!!u've really made my day!!its a huge complement comin from a person lik u!!however i don have all these qualities...honestly!!!

i am definitely the person whom i project in y/a..infact to be truthful i've become a much better person after coming here..honestly y!a has changed me a lot..it has made me understand the other ppl's views,become a more matured person,a thinker...and have made gr8 frndz out here.....

i answer every question from my heart and heart can never be wrong..it is me!!!!!so definitely i'm the same in my real life too!!!!!!!

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Answer 8

although I am not in the list there ...
I am the same in life as I am here ..
and yet I have no real friends in my life here at home
I was never liked at school and always stayed home instead of going out
so I can understand why your friends are saying the same
it seems in this life ... not everyone appreciates " nice " or it scares them in some way

or in the case of what my aunt said about me
" I dont trust someone that sweet "

Answer 9

All that people saying their parents were wrong doesnt include me !!!!!!!!! I know that everyone..ur teacher or relatives ifscold u then they dont do it becoz they dont like u but do it becoz they want u to be good ..............Many times i ask my mother' what do u want me to be?' and she always answers...." I want u to be a good human being"
Always be optimistic!!!!!! Before thinking bad about someone always keep urself in their place and then think why they did bad to u !!!!
I dont know whether i am good or not but i dont respect those who r always grumbling about the misfortunes in life!!!!

So, for everybody who reads my answer i would like to advice................" Keep Smiling!!! Be optimistic!!!!"

Answer 10

I'm completly that person what i'm on yahoo
i'm not saying that I have all good habbits in me,what u have mentioned,but I have most of them...........
u have mentioned that some youngsters say...........luv them
but my parents luv me they r proud of me & i luv them more than myself
i'm bold where i sh'd be,not in other way
i'm lovable, my family,friends,teachers,relatives & all ppl who know me,love me so much & i'm very lucky


u might b thinking i'm doing my self-praise,but that's true