I mean are there specific things that you need to do. I date the wrong men for me. Men who only lie, cheat and use me. she told me to stop dating and get to know myself. what does this mean?
2007-11-14 14:33:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she means stop dating for a while, and maybe use that time to take care of yourself more. then eventually mr.right will come alone naturally. i hope i helped! :)
2007-11-14 14:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by somrp2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means, that she feels like maybe you are using men as a way to distract yourself (ie. make yourself happy). Do you always feel down when you're not in a relationship? Knowing yourself means independence. When you already love yourself the way you are, and have settled your inner turmoil about yourself, you'll have more confidence. This means that although you might not have a man, you'll be happy and be able to stand on your own two feet. Don't let the men you're dating define you. Know thyself. It's a simple old proverb, but this is what it means. Be who you are and love it. It may take going back and dealing with regrets and finding friends who will help you look at yourself more truthfuly. happy soul searching babe!
2007-11-14 22:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She meant for you to stop dating for a little while and spend some time for your self... REALLY think about the kind of person you are and what guy meets the perfect match for you. If you date the wrong men i suggest you should be friends with whoever you like first.... at least for a couple months to get to know their personality. Or have your friends introduce you to a nice guy they really know.
2007-11-14 22:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Vball_addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you take a look at yourself, what do i want, how do i feel about myself ,What should I change about myself, what makes me happy. why do i date the men i do. those things. Get to know you first, find what is best for you then worry about dating again.
2007-11-14 22:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a good littlle test you can do
spend 24hours a month in total solitude, no friends phones computers books ANY technology... and just think about what ever you can... you WILL think about your self and you will re evaluate past experiences and wonder what could have caused or changed their outcome
you can even do it once a week if you can make time for it it has to be done in one sit in (a whole day in solidute 24 hours straight, none of that 2 hours here 3 there and 6 somewhere else)
2007-11-14 22:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just notice everything that you do-even the smallest things.
Observe what you respond to.
Try and see how you act with others.
Try and notice things you do.
And if that's the kind of men they are, maybe the next time you go and date a man, try to observe him from a distance-see how he acts around others as well!
2007-11-14 22:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's she? OK, u need a break. Just quit dating for a while and concentrate on YOU! To many people keep dating, and they never stop because they don't want to be alone. Y? Because they don't want to know who THEY are, because if they did, they're afraid of what they might find. IF all the guys are wrong for u, then date urself for a while. Treat urself right...and get to know what U want. Then u'll know what kind of guys to attract, and u'll go to those places, and hopefully get one. Good luck.
2007-11-14 22:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to be alone to be able to find yourself. Writing your feelings and your thoughts are great ways to finding out more about yourself. I know when I went on a trip to Europe, I learned so much about myself. You need to learn about yourself, what you really want, what you really like, how you really feel, what you want to do. Its harder than it seems, on the outside you might think you know, but inside it might be a different story. I suggest for you to start with writing. Write about anything and everything. You might be surprised by what your hand scribbles. Good luck!
2007-11-14 22:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by shimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she means that stop with the dating and move on and try to live by yourself for some time. she's right
you have a dated a couple of men and i think you need to stop
its too much
2007-11-14 22:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means reflect on what you like to do, what values are important to you, and what things you can not tolerate.
Try going out to eat by yourself. What kind of restaurants do you prefer? Do you miss talking to people, like people watching, etc ?
Take lessons in something that interests you. Why did you choose that? Are you competitive, creative, etc.?
Think about behavior or speech you have tolerated that you wouldn't if you didn't "like" the person. (smoking, profanity, interrupting you, too cheery/grumpy, etc.)
2007-11-14 22:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by deirdrezz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋