when I call my guy , sometimes he doesnt call me back right away -i have to call another time to reach him even though I leave him a message . Then tonight we were sapose to talk at 9 .I have called him 2 times & no answer. He says there is stuff going on in his life right now that he doesnt want to tell me about & he wants to Move to GERmany . we have 2 kids together & I have known him for about 10 years now . I think something is wrong . I think he is cheating on me or something . HELP
2007-11-14 14:27:29 · 22 answers · asked by mommaknowsbest 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was married to him we are seperated right now
2007-11-14 14:34:20 · update #1
Relax, calm and quiet your mind and the answers will rise from the silence. Fear of the unknown is a meaningless torture. And what you dream up in your mind may very well become your reality.
When the power of mind is backed by love you simply can not loose. :)
2007-11-14 14:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Inflames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to my husband and he goes out of town alot and I cant ever get him on the phone the first time I call but if I call the second time he always answers. If you to are in love and have kids together you need to sit down and talk to each other and find out what is going on with him. If you to are in love whatever the problem is he should be able to tell you. And just because he dosent answer the phone that dosent mean that he is cheating on you and if you are thinking that then you to dont have any trust and that is a huge problem. First work on that and everything else will fall into place.
2007-11-14 22:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by EMTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny move on and let him go. You said it he is cheating. Dont call the guy, let them call you. Sounds like he is a worthless piece of crap to not return your phone call or answer it. Especially if you have 2 kids together. He must not care too much cause he would answer his phone. What if you were trying to reach him about something with your kids. It will be hard but you can do better. Show him what he will be missing, dont play his games. Wish you the best of Luck and God Bless.
2007-11-14 22:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by itsmzbitch2u2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuff going on in his life he doesn't want to tell you about? Not good.
There is a good possibility he is getting involved in another relationship. Maybe just calmly ask him that? And be prepared for him to say yes...
Then have a game plan. What will you do if he leaves you for another person? Go to college? Move to a new city? Have your plan solidified so that you don't feel helpless if he admits that he is leaving you.
Sorry sweetie, it really sounds like there's someone else. I'm really sorry, this sucks.
2007-11-14 22:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right that something is wrong, but it might not be cheating on you. Has he said yet if he wants you to move to Germany with him? My guess is that he wants you to go too, he is in serious trouble, and he wants to flee the country. But If he does not want you to go to Germany, he probably made an online connection with a German. Whatever, it is, if he loves you, he should confide in you what is troubling him.
2007-11-14 22:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Frank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness. I think that you need to talk to him. Tell him that you have a family to run and that if he loved you , he would tell what is going on. I think that he is maybe stressed and needs space. Guys get like that sometimes. But, if he says that he does not want to talk about it, you can and can not be worried. Maybe he is cheating on you or maybe something good has happened! You need to get more info from him.
~maddie
2007-11-14 22:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can only be resolved with a face to face conversation. I understand that maybe he is needing to work things out on his own... but after 10 years, he should be able to still share what's wrong in his life with you.
2007-11-14 22:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by mscubanlink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... Yeah sounds fishy! Sorry but you chose to have not one but 2 kids with someone who didnt love you enough to marry you. So what did you expect?
Call him and tell him your concerns, you need to get the issues out on the table.
2007-11-14 22:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Leizl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesn't want you anymore. accept the fact that you are dumped. file for child support. before he goes to germany. concentrate on getting the kids raised. give up on him. he is probably not your guy anymore. stop chasing that old dream and get busy creating a good life for your kids.
2007-11-14 22:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you cant just sit back and do nothing
i think your husband is cheating on you
ask him where he is going in germany
and you travel to there and find him
you cant just give up
no matter how far it is!!!
ya gotta take action
and if you catch him with a woman
be pissed off and sooooo mad
and he's gonna leave that woman alone
and might come back to you
this is all if you want to do it
2007-11-14 22:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋