Don't have sex in a gym or bathroom for Pete's sakes! Don't you want to ENJOY your first experience? Are you in love with this girl? Just speed forward about 30 years (because you'll blink and you'll be 40!) and think about what you want your answer to be when someone asks you (maybe your son or daughter!), "What was your first time like?"
Do you want to remember it with disgust or sit there and daydream because it was so fabulous you have great memories? Just doing it with some senior chick (who obviously doesn't think much of herself!) in a bathroom or gym will not be exciting after it's over! You can't get your virginity back...
A lot of kids were "doing it" in school when I was in high school. I waited until my boyfriend and I had been steady for a few months. Granted, a lot of people will say "Wait until you get married" but let's face it. That's just not the majority way these days. I was in high school in the 70's and had the same hormones and desires racing through me that everyone else did. I had a couple of boyfriends I just made out with and BOY did I WANT to have sex with them but I didn't. I waited because it's harder to wait and therefore it's SO MUCH MORE satisfying when you finally do it AND I was SO in love with the guy when we did. It was at his house, in his room, on his bed. We planned it and it was incredible... we got married five years later...
That doesn't always happen, but my point is that this is no dress rehearsal. Life DOES go by fast and you only get to do "first time things" once! Make it count! Be the one guy who says, "You're just not good enough for me and I want to wait for the girl I want rather than just do it for your sake because you're horny!"
I hope you wait, but if not.... well then at least do it off campus! :-)
2007-11-14 12:01:17
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answered by Fuzzy 2
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Man, I'm Only A Freshman Too.
& I Say No.
This Senior Boy Asked Me That Too.
But Too Have It In A Parking Lot?
Yeah... NO.
Not Smart.
This Girl Berkley Got Hurt That Way.
(A Guy She Had Sex W/ Just Left Her W/
A Baby, She's Now A Junior.)
MuchLuck,
How Abot Just Finding A Hot Fresman?
Lovee&PeaceeBabiee,
Skyler.<333
2007-11-14 11:53:15
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answered by MayahBabiee 1
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Ok, I'm a cool chick and stuff, but come on. If it's your first time, you really need to do it someplace more private. You don't even know how you and your body are going to react to this. You really should wear a condom, although I'm sure you won't. This girl sounds really 'loose', so I'm sure she's done it with a lot of guys. But if you must, don't do it at school, and if you don't use a condom, please pull it out. You don't need a baby at this point in your life. Just remember, you will never have another "first time", so you will be looking back on this event for the rest of your life.
2007-11-14 17:27:27
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answered by Anonymous
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What is the worst that could happen by getting caught?? That is what makes it fun. If your not ready, just let her know. Besides, if you have sex at school, and it is your first time, there is not much to worry about in the getting caught category, because it will only last for about a min or so.
2007-11-14 11:53:49
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answered by rumbarry 2
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The reason she wants to do it in the school is for the adrenalin of the chance you COULD get caught. Tell her you want set up something special at your house and surprise her. Get the first time out of the way and then experiment in different places. Doing it in school bathrooms is not it's all cracked up to be.
2007-11-14 11:52:05
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answered by Katy A 2
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Sex is not something you should take lightly. You would want it to be special and with someone that you care about. Don't out yourself out there like that. If she's willing to sleep with you right there in the school like that. That should put up warning signs for you. You never know who's she doing and just think about it this way if you sleep with her it's like sleeping with everyone she's slept with. Just some food for thought.
2007-11-14 11:53:28
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answered by tlnay025 3
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If shes anywhere near pretty then YES! When she says she wants to do it at school you do it!!
Even if you get caught the worst thing will be the embarrassment. And that passes in time.
Just remember to be safe =)
Good luck!
2007-11-14 11:52:25
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answered by Chongo 2
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Ok. seriously. You need to ask people that? How bout you wait until you are old enough to do it legally with the chick and not get her arrested for rape? I don't know, that sounds smarter than getting caught by your teachers, or worse, your parents.
2007-11-14 12:06:16
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answered by Anonymous
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wow freshmen getting a senior. Congratz! hhmm try doing it when it dark and no ones around? Or does she want it during day in school hours? Make sure you have protection she might have STD cuz she sounds a lil dirty...
2007-11-14 11:52:33
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answered by domenicmall 2
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nooo definitely dont risk that. trust me, if you get caught... itd be terrible. if she really wants to have sex with you she'll work it out so it doesnt have to be during school. if she's a senior she most likely has a car and liscence and would be able to drive you either to her house or yours.... no point in doing it at school.
2007-11-14 11:51:50
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answered by li 4
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