Friendship troubles?

Question

Al hamdulilah there are so many pakistani muslims
LOts of my friends are pakistani
BUt SOME make me feel left out cuz im not
One "friend" does this and she makes me feel stupid and left out
And get this she thinks shes my best friend
ANyways I have changed schools and know i barely talk to her.

So my question is how do i confront her? SHould I tell someone? SHould I still be her friend? I dont think i should
Assalam may allah bless u

ude answers will be reported

Oh i meant she does it the most but she doesnt know she does it
ANd she makes me feel like im a dumb log and im am so ANGRY!!!!!!

imkevlar: I am a kid!! Im 11!!

Answer 1

Salam

Anger is not a muslim quality. InshAllah you will have tolerance amin.
Hands, Mouth and Heart in peace and then sit down in peace. He was the best example of us, and he did get frustrated but never angry. When he did, he never spoke about it. It was reported but he never spoke about his anger.

Answer 2

Yes, you should confront her, also grow up some. This stuff is what kids spend time worrying about.

[Anger is not a muslim quality.]

That's odd, many of the videos I've seen of islamic nations (like Iran and the paelstinians) show lots of angry people.

Answer 3

well, why would you want to be friends with anyone who makes you feel that way? Surely no friend at all is better then the friend you described. By all these worldy troubles your having with her then I think you see what I am trying to say without having to gossip. Their is more important things for you to do in life then stress over someone who hurts you sister

Answer 4

The Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H & H.F):
"If any one betrays trust with you, do not betray trust with him or you will also become like him. Similarly, do not break ties with your relatives even if they do so."

http://www.duas.org/Matrimony/good_relations_with_relatives.htm

Answer 5

Try to save your friendship if you value your friendship