HE HAS A FREAKIN GIRLFRIEND!!! grrr.and it kills me! I like him so much, and I get so jealous when I see him with her. He's just a nice guy, and he's such a good boyfriend too. He'll do anything for anybody. He's caring, loving, funny, and romantic. You dont find that in a guy these days...so, I dont want to let this go. I have NO idea wat to do....Just let him go, and stay away? idk...advice??
2007-11-14 11:35:45 · 33 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, does he like you? If he isn't intreasted, let it go. Also you don't want the one to break up a "happy home". Let's think about it...if he does get with you when he is with her then that makes him a cheater, and if he cheated on her, he will cheat on you. All you can do is be his friend, and show him your the better girl for him.
2007-11-14 11:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by elslauren 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best thing you can do is to let him go. Try to find another guy. Getting obsessed over him isn't going to do you any good. scenarios are;
a) he stays with his girlfriend and you just get more heartbroken as time progresses,
b) even if he liked you and he broke up with his girlfriend for you, wouldn't it make you feel a bit insecure in the relationship - that he could do the same again and break up with you for someone else. if you're right that he's loving, he won't do this anyway. if you're wrong, and he's not, then you haven't got him figured out right anyway.
you may just be seeing what you what to see in him anyway. even if i'm wrong - there are good guys out there. give them a chance. finally, if you take your mind off him while he's dating and then he breaks up with his girlfriend, you can doing something about it then.
2007-11-14 11:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go girl. You will find many like this I promise :) But hang on to the memories. What did you like about him? What didn't you like about him? Keep those in mind as you are searching for the right guy. Remember, even the perfect guy has something really, really wrong with him. For example, my fiance is great in all areas besides listening. He's the best boyfriend. He's romantic, thoughtful and loving but when I need him to just listen it's like he's incapable. I suggest you look inside of you to find out what really attracts you to him and hone in on it to find the right man.... a single man :)
2007-11-14 11:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by LeAndra 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should, try to move on, or wait. theres a difference, well you see;; the guy has a girlfriend depending on the way she treats him. if he treats her so good, and she doesnt do the same; that would end the relationship and cause failure. Just try and move on, if that guy is getting what he deserves. have someone ask him randomly likee, would you go out with her. her. her and then say ur name youuknoes? its better to go for it than to regret it and be like "what if i toook the risk to let him know" (:
2007-11-14 11:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant take it and its affecting your friendship with him then stay away.
If you think you can be friends with him though, then you should be, its always nice to have good guys around you.
Maybe just take a break from him and then go back for a friendship, if its just going to be pine pine pine then you do need to stay away just to get over your feelings a bit. He is obviously a lovely guy, and lovely guys dont break up with there lovely girlfriends.... Maybe try to be friends with her? It might help...
Good luck, an unrequited love is always hard to take. :(
xxx
2007-11-14 11:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, what goes around comes around, in other words do not try to steal her boyfriend. However, if he is as good as you say, then you should try to remain his friend so that when they do break up you can move in. However, don't be too close of a friend because then you'll only like him more and it will drive you insane. Just call him here and there, so that when they do break up your informed.
2007-11-14 11:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by purpl0828 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this works for me......
If your not his friend get to know him a little more and become friends and if he and his Gurlfriend ever break up then move on him but not to fast slow at first and then when he shows u signs about liking you: laughing at your jokes, when ever he walks past u he makes sure ur arms make contact all of that stuff then he could like u but it might not be a hundred percent but like i said try to get to know him a lil better.
2007-11-14 11:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had a romantic involvement with him???How committed is he to his girlfriend.?? I would casually let him know how great you think he is and remain friends, but do not wait around, if things are meant to be they will work out for you
2007-11-14 11:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by catfur4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends but don't stalk him. Perhaps if he breaks up with his girlfriend, you can be there for him. However, don't 'wait' around. Go on dates, meet new people. perhaps you will find that there are many other good guys out there too.
2007-11-14 11:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by prestonbenedict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out and leave him alone he has a girl. What would happen if he was your man and someone took him away from you. How would you feel. Grow up and get your own man. Stop being a child with that jealousy SH!T.
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2007-11-14 11:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋