Hey. I broke up with my boyfriend a long time ago, bout two yrs ago. We have barely talked at all! and i miss talkin to him, he used to be a best friend then everything just got awkward. I got his number from a friend and texted him, it seems like he doesnt want to talk to me?! What should i say? I'm so confused. xoxo Please give good advice! Guys, can u tell me what u would want a girl to talk to u about when u just first talk after a long time
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2007-11-14 11:33:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know its been a long time, but i know that he is kinda shy, but y cant he talk to me?
2007-11-14 11:43:39 · update #1
He broke up with me... I just hate not talking...
2007-11-14 11:44:24 · update #2
I DONT like him anymore, i just wanna b friends
2007-11-14 11:45:28 · update #3
It was a normal break up, we treated eachother great. We liked eachother ALOT! We just had to break up cuz we couldnt really talk anymore
2007-11-14 12:09:45 · update #4
I think from my point of pview you should just may b give him a lil' bit of sdpace and then later he just might, i said might want to come around and finally give you guy's time to talk and when you think you are finally now ready to let your feelings out and ask him if he would like to meet up and talk but make sure it's face 2 face!And try not to seem 2 desperate! Hope my advice kinda works out 4 you! Good luck!
2007-11-14 12:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Alyssa F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats kinda what heppenned to me and my girlfriend.
we started dating like 3 years ago and we broke up for like a year. Now we've been dating for almost a year and a month. Well I wanted to get back with her so I started talking to her on msn.
It cant help but to start flirting and telling him that you miss him. As long as you dont have a boyfriend and he dont have a girlfriend at the moment anythings alright. Just dont go too far. Dont talk about guy friends you have or anything. Just keep talking to him about how hes been doing since the breakup. Trust me this will work.
Enjoy :)
Eskimo519
2007-11-14 19:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Impossible to answer without knowing the full context of the break up. If he left you because you treated him bad, then you would be better off not contacting him. He will feel you used the friendship you once had and threw it in the garbage.
2007-11-14 19:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t mean to be mean but if he doesn’t really want to talk to you right now, there really isn’t much to do about it. Your just going to have to except the fact that it is over and you need to get passed it. It may have been a good friendship back then, but time has passed.
2007-11-14 19:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by Casey Pieper 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be just that he wouldn't be able to handle a friendship with you because of your past. It may never be the same. Just being honest, there may be noting u can say that can change what he is feeling.
2007-11-14 19:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Coopdawgg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People change. For your best interest, move on. We all have change in our lives after a couple years. It's not easy-been there , done that.
2007-11-14 19:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by WooleyBooley again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you break up with him? Cause that could be kind of confusing for him.
2007-11-14 19:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Delusions of Grandeur 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋