I'm Scared! He's Scared! WHY?

Question

okay we are horrified type scared.
I've been on 2 dates with this guy.And he makes himself obvious.But i dont say anything about it being obvious. he talks to my friends and my sister more than he does to me.but when he talks to me its nothing like he's talking to his friends or my sister.he is really nice and has never been mean to me.so the thing about being scared.homecoming was a month and a half ago(we went together) and we have hardly talked since.i dont know if thats if theres a next date then things are getting serious or what.both of us have never been in a realtionship before or been in love(we are only 16).I read that when a guy likes a girl he will act totally different to her then he will to his other friends that are girls.and my friend told me that he has an easier time talking to other girls cuz it isnt me.but at homecoming while we were dancing he spun me out and then spun me into his arms.i have this gut feeling he likes me.it confuses me cuz he hardly shows signals

correction to first sentence. its suppose to say: we arent horrified scared.

Answer 1

Do you know why no one answered? Because pretty much everyones scared, fearful, and clueless when it comes to relationships. You have two fixes, ether you do it like everyone else and continue not to talk to him about how you feel about this, honestly and watch the whole thing crumble in front of you, OR you talk honestly to him about this, the way you feel about it, him, you, and the world, and TRY and help you guys along. Unless your "relating" (its another word for communicating, honestly) then you have no "relate"ionship, get? Fear is the mential reaction to things we don't understand. Such as how you feel about him, and the relationship, you don't understand. So get started trying to understand him and what you want with this relationship, or live in fear, the choice is yours.....