My boyfriend and I were going out for years and then he cheated on me and broke up with me. Not long after his/our friend started telling me he was interested in me and we have been talking everyday since. About a month after the break-up my ex starting calling cause he wants me back. I dont know if im completely over my ex but I really am starting to like the friend. according to them both they dont even like each other. what do i do?
2007-11-14 09:05:26 · 16 answers · asked by eyeofthetiger80 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO... that would be so mean......
2007-11-14 09:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally if my boyfriend cheated on me, there's no way I'd ever date him again. My theory is once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't listen to the ex that wants you back. If you like his friend, go for it, there's nothing that says you can't date his friend, especially if his friend is a really nice guy. If they don't even like each other you should have nothing to worry about, then they aren't even friends! Don't let anyone keep you from being with someone you want to be with.
2007-11-14 09:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. in a nut shell it will give the perception that you are cheap and that any guy in a circle of friends can have you. at this time it is best if you just look for a new group of people to find romance. other points to consider is why this guy wants to be with you pehaps it's cause your ex spoke highly of your "skills". i would leave well enough alone and go in a different direction.
2007-11-14 09:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by sportsfan6702002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you, he will do it again. If you want to date the ex go ahead.
2007-11-14 09:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Fairy*Blue*Eri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DATE HIM not to make ur ex jealous or mad that u guys are going out but you can go out with anyone you'd like k
2007-11-14 09:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is almost no excuse to date an ex's friend...its not fair to anyone in the situation, the two of them will start to fight, the two of you will fight when the ex is around etc etc
2007-11-14 09:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by prplfae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hook your girlfriend up with your ex....that oughta go over real well. Then you can feel the same thing your ex would feel if you dated his friend!
2007-11-14 09:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the friend..
drop your x in the ditch before he drops you again..
Get a fresh deserving start with the friend!
2007-11-14 09:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he's an x for a reason. Having a relationship without trust is not worth it. Find someone else.
2007-11-14 09:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Vanessa♥ஐ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never dated one of your ex's friends thats against the rule s of friendship.
2007-11-14 09:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by keke_1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to do what you think is right. You can't resolve your relationship by asking people. Go with your heart.
2007-11-14 09:08:40 · answer #11 · answered by I have a key... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋