2007-11-14 05:43:36 · 28 answers · asked by thezookeeper 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
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2007-11-14 06:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Soul Doctor 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to show him that it is unacceptable. Be stern with him, and stick to it. And it may sound imature but give him a taste of his own medicine every once in a while. When he screams, you scream louder. He says no, you say NO. As far as the hitting, some parents dont like to spank. If you are ok with it return a swat or two. Not hard enough to hurt or make him cry, but enough to get his attention and make him realize its not fun being on the receiving end. Or you could just catch his hand when he tries to hit you, hold it and say no.
At two they are old enough to know what they are doing, but not old enough to actually sit down and have a talk with. Keep it simple, no is the key word.
2007-11-14 10:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First think about what the issue is - is he/she asserting his independence and exercising choice? If it's not a crucial issue, you can tell him/her that you are ok with the choice.
If it's something he/she needs to do, you might want to stop him/her from hitting you - possibly by hugging him/her so that the child knows you love him/her, and then explaining that it needs to be done. Not a lot of words, just a short simple sentence or two.
If it persists, a short time-out of two minutes or so could be used.
It's normal for kids that age to do this - but a consistent response is beneficial for the child.
2007-11-14 05:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Adlpated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put him in the corner for 2 minutes (1 minutes per age), if he comes out of the corner set him back and start the 2 minuets over, after he stays there for a full 2 minuets, talk to him and explian why he was there and have him give you a hug and say sorry.
2007-11-14 06:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are 2 and throwing a fit - it's pretty normal. What worked for me was removing mine from the room.
I never thought I had that much patience, but I would take him to his room (GENTLY) and tell him that the way he was acting was unacceptable. When he felt like he could stop screaming, etc then please come back to the other room. If it took 10 times before he got it, then that is what I did. He was free to come out when he could behave, so I wasn't make him do something - he was deciding. This worked pretty quickly for me.
Don't get upset, scream at them, grab them, etc because then you are doing exactly what you are telling them not to do.
2007-11-14 05:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make a kind of timeout zone eg their room or sitting on the bottom step of the stairs for say 10 minutes and if they are still in a tantrum increase the time until they learn that screaming just gets them nowhere
2007-11-14 05:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tom O 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to be very stern at this point and let him know that screaming and hitting is NOT acceptable!! He needs to have very clear rules on this behavior and when he does it, he needs some time out type punishment. He needs to learn to calm himself down, and spending some time alone is a good way to do that. Be the one in charge!
2007-11-14 05:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should go to time-out every single time, no trying to reason with him, no bargaining, no exceptions. He has to stay there until he 1)calms down and 2)tells you that he is sorry. My son stayed in time-out for almost 20 min one time b/c he refused to apologize(he's also 2 1/2). He finally said he was sorry and was allowed down. If he won't sit in the time-out chair, you have to hold him down. Sounds extreme, but you gotta get ahold of this problem now...he needs to respect your authority and understand that the behavior is unacceptable. Good luck!
2007-11-14 06:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by emrobs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have ever watched the show Nanny 911 or Super Nanny or shows like that it shows you ways to disipline your kids such as having stickers on a chart and if they misbehave they dont get a sticker for that day and at the end of a month or week they get a small prize like getting to watch their favorite movie if they have a reasonable amount of stickers
Hope I helped : )
2007-11-14 05:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't yell back at him it just teaches him that is what he is supposed to do when he gets mad or doesn't get what he wants. Watch Nanny 911 she is pretty amazing. She teaches that you have to stay calm and put him in a timeout. If he gets out put him back in. If it gets really bad you should hold him until he calms down and stops hitting. Good Luck
2007-11-14 05:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by sidaca02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋