When you think you want to be loved... and someone says they love you and want a relationship with you...... and then you realise that you're completely messed up in the head and you don't want to be loved at all.
Has this ever happened to anyone else?
2007-11-14 00:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by cosmicmoon 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I've had this happen to me.
I'm in a healthy relationship right now with a new wonderful woman, but deep down I could never love another woman as much as I love her. We were together for over a year with plans to get married. Then one day she decided she didn't want the attention and love I gave her and she left. I was and still am crushed. I will never forget her.
2007-11-14 01:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by James Bond 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I imagine most people have gone thru this. Be glad you're having the chance to experience this or just to find some one who cares about you. How it comes out is missing the point, it's the experience that matters and how you handle it.
2007-11-14 01:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Bob H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I only like people until I realise that they like me back. Then I start seeing all of their faults and not wanting to spend time with them.
You're not alone.
2007-11-14 04:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Neely O'Hara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most have us have been through this. Perhaps spend sometime in your own to decide what you really do want. Don't let it go too far or some one will really get hurt.
2007-11-14 04:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by happy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, well that's very nice. But I'm not giving up that easily.
And yes, it is totally awful.
2007-11-14 03:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm yea.the guy im with says he loves me and i have said it 2 him but i dnt mean it.i want to mean it but i know im 2 young to actually LOVE him and i DNT want 2 either cuz i dnt want 2 get hurt.but o well if it makes him happy.=)good luck wit ur situation
2007-11-14 01:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sophia 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your scared. You should face your fear and be stronger.
2007-11-15 01:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm no but hell yeah it sounds complicated
2007-11-14 09:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on babe
2007-11-14 01:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by oG33MANo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋