Why are some people so rude here when someone asks a question??

Question

i had no idea i was a racist, thank you for telling me (who ever that was)= figuring that im a minority female living in america!!
i think i'll join the KKK!!!

"We should not assume things when we do not know." --croweye
do you know what i was thinking when i asked that question??? NO u r the one asuming hun...the reason why i deleted that question is because i got retarted *** answers like the person that said i was racist i dont remember if it was u or what, whoever it was needs to get a life before you start accusing people of bs

Answer 1

There are many self righteous people in this world who cannot accept that we are all different and experience different tests and obstacles in our path in Islam. None of us is perfect and we all have much to learn. Being rude is not a solution.

Answer 2

AS salaamu 'alaikym, my friend.

Insha'Allah, I apologize for whoever labeled you as a "racist" (I did see that comment on a response to a recent posting of yours). The same was uncalled for and, I believe, incorrect. Again, I apologize for the bahavior of some persons.

Insha'Allah, some persons might feel so inadequate that they think that to promote their perseonal opinion, they must degrade another person whose view might be different from their own. This appears to often be accompanied by a weak arguement the basis of which can not necessarily be substantiated.

Insha'Allah, it has been my experience that persons who act in such a manner towards another have learned said behavior when they were very young. If a child is made to repeatedly feel that his or her opinion, ideas and thoughts are worthless by his or her parents or other adult role models then, as they physically grow to adulthood, they may carry that same idea with them. In an attempt to validate their ideas, etc., they degrade others just as they learned to do.
On the contrary, those who have grown up to realize that their ideas have merit and value, as do the ideas and opinions of others, can, with politenss discuss the same even should such a discussion lead to the polite and mutual agreement to disagree.
Although one would hope that civility would always be the norm, unfortunately, it is not always the case.

Insha'Allah, as a Muslim practicing what I have learned from the Holy Qur'an and from the lived example of the Prophet Muhammad(sallaahu 'alaihi wasallaam), I hope that I always treat others with the kindness, compassion, mercy and understanding that I hope to receive from them.

Ma'a salaam.

Answer 3

Because they can. I have experienced this myself. Not long ago I answered a question - thinking YA was where you could give an opinion - boy I go blasted for giving the wrong advise and told I was lying on literature I had read on Prophet Mohammad (pbuh ) and Hasrat Aisha (ra). Anyway could not sleep, and even doubted that I may have been wrong and misread, so I asked Allah swt for help went to the few book I had ( I am in the process of moving ) and the second book I picked up it went straight to the chapter. It was not the exact quote but something on the subject. I put this on the board with the book, page and quote- not being offensive in the least - in fact saying that I hoped it cleared things up - and someone reported me for violation - lol I wasn't even being rude (this was on Ramadan forum). I think your question involves everyone christian, jew, buddist, atheist and sometimes even muslims.
Some people just do it for a laugh and to rub people up the wrong way, some are genuine and taken the wrong way, and some who think they are definitely right and do not give people a chance to explain their way of thinking. People forget that we do not grow up in the same place and same experiences everyone is unique and each has to find their own way, whether it is early in their life of later.
To me people who are abusive on YA are people lacking in self-onfidence in themselves and find this a strange power because they can say what they want and not have to be face to face to the person they are saying it to.

Answer 4

why people are so rude when they don't know how to ask a question? why are they asking stupid questions? People here kissing everyone's a@@. I'm not. Give me thumbs down because I don't care.
You are encouraging the non-Muslims to say racist things against eastern muslims becuase of the Question you asked, then you deleted that question because you know it is wrong, then you asked this question for sympathy.
Note:
Most racist people in USA are Minorities. It would not be acceptable for a white person to come on here and say the things you did. We should not assume things when we do not know.

Answer 5

Whether it be your religion, colour, school, sports team, sexuality, mental health or any thing else which makes you "YOU", it places you outside their comfort zone.

People fear those of us who are different to them. They forget that actually we are ALL different.

Answer 6

Most of them find it funny and the rest may just be rude ppl.

Answer 7

Because they have issues with who they are(most likely self esteem issues) so they get nasty with everyone else just to compensate for what they feel that they are lacking. If someone is rude to you just pay them no mind, its definatly not something worth getting upset over.

Answer 8

i agree. that's sort of the reason im too scared to post questions..
ill always get someone insulting me, or saying something dirty, or being unneccesarily sarcastic.

Answer 9

Because they are rude in nature & can't change there behaviour, if they don't like a question they should skip to another one that they like but they not, they stay & irritate others

Answer 10

They are the ones who have inferiority complex, hate themselves, their families, surroundings & of course, those poor & pathetic dudes need a lot of counselling.

Just ignore them & feel sorry for them.