I dated my bf for a year now (he is 40 (commitment phobe) and I am 24) a month ago he told me that he wanted to break up because he thinks I am to young to take the relationship further than just dating. He still calls me every night and now wants me to meet his mother!!! I don't get it????
2007-11-13 22:07:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sanne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants me to have dinner with him and her tonight. I have told him that I am moving on, but that only makes him want to get back together more.
2007-11-13 22:14:02 · update #1
Well his going to find out if it will be okay for mom to have you around... else... he'll wait another decade for the right girl...
for his mom... lol
2007-11-13 22:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tex Ahoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 21:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously not over you. And if you're still taking his phonecalls, it sounds like you aren't over him, either. Or you're not brave enough to hang up on him.
If you must let him know, say "Look, you're the one that broke up with me. You're 40. You shouldn't even taking your girlfriends home to your mum anymore. Grow up and leave me alone."
2007-11-13 22:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stck his mum where the sun dont shine i mean u have bben going out with him for a year now what makes the differents all of a sudon i would just tell him to get lost lol x-x
2007-11-13 22:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind him that the relationship is over and you've moved on with your life!
And yes, he was too old for you. Thank goodness he figured that out!
2007-11-13 22:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he wants to make amends for the break. But u must decide if this man suits u in spite of his age.
2007-11-13 22:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by jimmybond 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's weird.
Do YOU still love him/ If you do, then confront him and ask him wth is going on. If not, then tell him you're not interested please stop bugging me.
Good luck!
2007-11-13 22:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him for good and don,t meet his mother.
sounds like he is playing with you . move on.
find someone nice. good luck.
2007-11-13 22:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's asking his mom to judge you and him wheter he should break up with you...
2007-11-13 22:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Nicolas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not girl.go meet his parents.so you''ll get to know him more..good luck
2007-11-13 22:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by RED fairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋