help with personal issues?

Question

okay i'm having issues with lots of personal/mental stuff.
1 my friends are starting to ignore me, my jokes, my comments pretty much everything i do. so now i just stay quite and don't really say anything to them or talk to them. (they recently discovered drugs, i'm transfering school so i probably won't talk to them anyways)

2 i was sick for 2 weeks and missed quite a lot of HW and it was the when the grading period ended, so i couldn't make-up the homework as i already got my report card. parents are furious about the grades, but i told them it couldn't be helped they're mad anyways, and because of that i might not be able to transfer to this other school...

3 i have been having trouble with the girls at school. they are all whores and i don't like that. it seems wherever i go i have to look at a chubby girl with back fat hanging out everywhere. and i wake up at 4am every morning just to be in shape... it's just like a middle finger to me i feel.

4 if i don't make it to that other school how will i go about with this school? i know i will not stay friends with my previous ones, and i really don't like being a hermit. nor do i want to be with whores. and if i don't make it to the transfer school i'll be stuck in a worse school than i'm in now. i just want to be able to go to a college where i can have freedom, and pursue my dreams with pleasure. i need to find a way to be happy where i'm at but i'm having trouble so i'm asking you intelligent folks to help me

school councoler is the football coach and he's mad at me because i'm transferring schools, he's a real dick. and i wouldn't ever want to see him again if i had that opportunity

Answer 1

In all honesty, dramatic as it seems now....you grow up,
and you'll look back and ask yourself why the hell you worrried, more so, even why you spent less time with the people that mattered ...
truth be told - you have to live it!
Be yourself, back yourself, that way - your options are your own , and the outcomes of your choices are yours alone!
Scary - growing up!

Answer 2

school often brings problems like these, what you need to do is find something that makes you happy, a hobby or something that you can escape to for a little while and that makes life easier for the moment. if you dont make it into the other school, try not to worry about it too much, everything happens for a reason.
talk to your friends about their attitude, but just drop hints if they're not the type to talk. if they still ignore you, have fun with them by being incredibly sarcastic. that worked for me :) it was fun too.
and with the whores, you being in shape should be a finger up to them in honesty because they can't be bothered to look their best and they take anyone who will give it to them coz the chances of a proper relationship are slim.
your better off than you think you are, just remember that when things seem bleak. you'll be free of school soon enough! :)
take care.
zen.

Answer 3

1. i know how that feels. the exact same thing happened to me once. all of a sudden , my group of friends just stopped talking ot me, or ignored me, or unwillingly answered my questions. turns out the reason was for something completely STUPID. but listen to me. if they were doing anything other than drugs, i would encourage you to go confront them and ask them what the problem is. but since they're going down the road to potential doom, i suggest you're safer staying in the light. find new friends hun, someone you can find who is much more worth your time.

2. try talking nicely to your parents, and making them see that you were unwell, and that has to count fror something. dont rebel, or shout back at them, coz it wont do you any good. at leas by showing them rrespect, they might still see that you are mature enough to accept your failures, claim responsibility and hopefully still let you switch schools. maybe you could add that your friends are getting into drugs and you wanna stay FAR away from such bad influences...

3. i dont understand why big girls upset you so much . but keep up the good work of keeping yourt body fit and healthy and having that discipline. take comfort in knowng that you arent like the whores in your school(i'm assuming you are a girl), and that you have way more class and sophistication than any one of them. if you cant improve the scenery, change your view, so to speak.

hope this helps in some way at least... and hope things get better for you ....

:)

Answer 4

First take a look at how your handling things. Is there anything that you need to change or should start doing differently. Sometimes people start acting differently because we act different and dont always realize it.

Second, talk to a teacher/counselor and your parents.. not fight or argue and try to look at why they are feeling how they feel.

Third, start getting involved with activities or hobbies that you like or interest you and you can meet new people and girls that interest you and feel the same way you do about your fitness and health. good luck

Answer 5

oh boy, what it is to be a teenager and have the whole world against you. sorry but what you're experiencing has happened to millions before you and will happen to millions more. it's all part of growing up. i hate to see fat hanging out of people's clothes too, but it's the fashion - live with it. why on earth do you get up at 4 to be in shape? just watch your diet and walk wherever you can, that's more normal. don't get obsessed with your weight and how you look, that can be a downward spiral towards eating disorders. no one's giving you the bird, but they might think you're giving it to them if you're coming across as judgemental and snobby. life's for living, not worrying what others think of us, so just get on with it. enjoy your teenage years, you'll be an adult long enough. good luck. diane.

Answer 6

maybe talk to a school counselor or something