2007-11-13 18:58:49 · 10 answers · asked by Lanie V 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Nah! No good can come of this if it is on a regular basis with the same guy! If you all are a group and he is just one of the guys then I suppose it is OK!!!
2007-11-13 23:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I'm a married guy, and it's not OK for a woman to be friends with a married guy. Or a guy with a married woman. Friends with THEM--the married person AND the spouse--is of course a different story. It is disrespectful in the extreme, and it exposes the wife to humilation if the friendship is misunderstood by others. Moreover, it's playing with fire.
Furthermore, I don't know what you mean by "hang with". If you mean spending time, doing stuff together, that's even worse.
Sorry to spoil your fun, but I'd rather be a fun-wrecker than a helper of a home-wrecker.
2007-11-14 03:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of my best friends are married men. I'm married too but I don't let that stop me from hanging out with my Budds. I don't see a problem if all your doing is hanging out with platonic friends.
2007-11-14 03:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by kimberleyelizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to put my perspective as a wife so I dont think its okay. But if you are hanging out with other friends then I won't go ballistic.
2007-11-14 03:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by tiger_lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no - unless you want to be the lamb who hangs out with the wolf in sheep's clothing.
It's not as safe as you think.
2007-11-14 04:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by beckini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooo, theres lotta single and looking men,
why hanging out with married one,
what if ur husband, future one keep hanging out with some woman???
2007-11-14 03:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by zakk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just make sure it doesnt get further then just casual 'hanging out'
but otherwise I personally don't think it's all that bad. I know I will, but I won't make my flirting 'obvious'
2007-11-14 03:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad thing I'm still single. :) Coz if I already got married, then I can only date my future wife.
2007-11-14 04:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dens 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's right if God's love is between you two.
Marriage is sacred, don't interrupt.
But it's ok to be friends.
2007-11-14 03:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by Tom 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Only if their wives know and do not care.
2007-11-14 03:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋