How do I politely tell a girl I like to change her style?

Question

I really like this girl's personality and enjoy talking to her, but I'm only attracted to her once in awhile. She has naturallly curly, frizzy hair (which I am just simply not a fan of) but she straightens it every once in awhile, which looks drastically better on her. I wish she would just get it permanently straightened, how do I politely tell her to do so without coming off as an rude jerk?

Answer 1

It might be safer to change yourself!!!!!!!!!!! I don't think you should say anything, but I don't think you should sit around at examine her hair or looks 24/7 either. Let us see your picture & see what advise we can offer you! Or maybe you are perfect. Let us see?

Answer 2

I dun really think that u should tell her to change her style. As each person have thier own thinking, u can't force other people to do what u think is good for them.Also she might also not really like her curly frizzy hair thats why she straightens them for a change sumtimes but may be due to some reasons like too busy or what she can't find time to keep making her hair straightened.So think about it on your own.

Answer 3

don't worry you are coming off as a rude jerk but since you can't help it, here is some advice. Tell the girl you love her hir when she straightens it. I have curly hair 2 though and it is a big hassle to straighten hair. But it wil make her feel good and maybe help you.

Answer 4

If you like her don't change her. Nobody's perfect. When my husband and I first started dating, years ago, I made changes for him... but that changed me and even though we didn't realize it back then, the person he first met is the one he feel in love with. Our relationship would have been allot stronger in the past if we wouldn't have tried to changed each other. I see guys with better hair... better styled clothes... or whatever. But there will always be a way for someone else to look better than the way another person styles something. But it has to be that owns persons style that's what makes each person unique.

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong with simply saying something like, "You know, I like your hair so much better straight. It really suits you. It frames your face. Have you ever thought of going with that look permanently?" She'll probably say something like it's a huge pain to do it. If she does, just shrug and say, "Well, it looks great", and then leave it. Then, just repeat how much you like it, whenever she does it. If she cares enough about what you think, she'll probably change it.

Answer 6

Really compliment her whenever she straightens her hair. Sometimes just saying Wow! your hair really looks great will do the trick. Never tell her her curly hair looks bad that will only hurt her feelings.

Answer 7

I think you sound like you are quite considerate. As people above have said...positive re-inforcement. Everytime she straightens her hair, compliment her alot. When she doesn't straighten it, say NOTHING. If she wants to pls you she will do it and you will be happy. If she doesn't want to do it, you just have to accept it and love the person within...cheers

Answer 8

well the next time she straightens her hair you should be like "i love it when you straighten your hair you should always do that!" and then maybe she'll keep doing it and decide to permanentely do it! or instead of saying you should always do that you should say "i wish it was always like that" or something hope that helps lol

Answer 9

well if you like her then you don't have to ask this question. just tell her i love it when your hair is straight...do you think there is a way of permanently straighting it? If she saids no, then you shouldn't push her.

Answer 10

depends. Most often it's better to not tred in that territory.

Best way to do it though, is to ask her if she's ever tried so and so. And then tell her that you think she would look cute/hot/good/attractive in it.