He has lots of photos of him and his ex girlfriend who he claims to hate and out in the open, why? =(
2007-11-13 15:46:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him. Tell him that he isn't dating her anymore, and it bothers you that he has all of these pictures of her still up. If he doesn't have feelings for her anymore, there is no need to look at her face everyday. Give him a picture of you, sign it something cute, and then see if he puts it up in his room. If not, then really confront him about it.
2007-11-13 15:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kat1286 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be jealous of another female at all? Girl, you better make him understand that if he's not with you, he's missing out. Forget his ex, she's not in the picture anymore. With that being said, he needs to get rid of her pics. I don't keep pictures of people I hate, pasted on my wall. Sorry, but I don't think anybody does. At the end of the day, actions speak louder than words and he needs to let her go completely, if he hates her that much. Best wishes.
-Knowledge24
2007-11-13 23:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem, and it frustrated me so much, that i considered ending things. My bf didn't say that he hated his ex, in fact he said that he loved her, and always would. However, he said things had ended, and that he had moved on. Well, I didn't believe that having all those photos of his ex was moving on.
To me, those pictures were a reminder of all the times they had spent together, the dreams they shared, and the love they once had. To him, they were just pictures that made him look good! That was why he insisted on having them up! Have you asked your bf why they are still up? I decided that my bf was either holding onto memories of her, or he was moving on with me. It was his decision. Perhaps you should offer your bf the same ultimatum?
In my case, some of the photos are still up. Him and his ex remain good friends, so i am ok with. Reach a compromise, or ditch him and his unresolved feelings for his ex!
Good luck!
2007-11-13 23:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by Amelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him why he keeps photos of his ex-girlfriend out in the open? He may not be over her yet or maybe he's in the process of letting go- it's better to be upfront and ask him. I know it's something very hard to hear but that may be the case- and should know so you don't feel like you're always going to be competing with his ex for love and attention
2007-11-13 23:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by happy14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has some unresolved issues. But that doesn't mean you should be jealous. Shes a part of his past. I've got xboyfriens from years ago that I still kinda hate.... I still have the pictures cause I didn't always feel that way and its a part of who I am,,,, and I would never think twice about getting back into another relationship with any of them.
2007-11-13 23:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by texasmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how long it has been since they broke up he could be not completely over her. I'm sorry to say but he may have told you what you wanted to hear just to make you happy. Try talking to him calmly about how you feel and what his feelings are. Don't get emotional and let him talk. If it's meant to be you'll work it out. Good luck!
2007-11-13 23:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by icecardinal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go JEALOUSY will get the best of you...but just tell him the pictures of x goes, she had her chance. You are with him now, tell him it hurts you to see the pictures, and if he didn't take them down after that, that ***** would be the one their so he could get a good look in person..Stake your claim lady own him ! I mean who wants to look at Xs pictures hanging around, he wouldn't want to see yours siting around.. you 2 need to have a long talk, and get serious with him cause jealousy freakin hurts it will rip you both apart ...Good luck
2007-11-14 00:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its bothering you, there's a reason girls make those "memory" boxes. Because its not right and kind of unfair to have that stuff out when your with someone else. If he's not hooked on her than it needs to be put away. If he makes a big deal about it, I would reconsider things cuz maybe hes not quite over her yet.
2007-11-13 23:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by tina p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine did the same thing. He just is doing it to make you jealous. Tell him to lose the pics or your gonna leave if he doesn't then maybe you should leave him because he's hung up on his ex.
2007-11-13 23:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by anarchistmelanie1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real a$s. Don't even give him the satisfaction of even looking at the pics. Don't even get near the pics. He is still in love and/or has no concideration for your feelings.
2007-11-13 23:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Cas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋