I smoked marijuana, lots of it. parents found out. lost all trust whatsoever. i quit smoking. gained a little trust back, parents still doubtful. i make bad grades, i try as hard as i honestly can. i am not good enough for my parents. just today i broke my moms car door, on accident. she put the car in reverse and i was holding the door open and it cought the "hose-holder" and wont close anymore. i've done alot of wrong things the past month or so. i cry nightly [joke on me and i'll ******* kill you] i just want my parents to trust me again. i am now realizing how much i depend on my parents. ive thought of suicide multiple times. today being one. ive ran away a couple times [though always come back because i realize how much i love them] and no matter how much i say i hate them, i truely love them.
im crying as i write this and to be honest, i just dont know what to do. i feel like **** every day. i just want to have my parents' trust back. i love em with all my heart.
2007-11-13 14:20:44 · 4 answers · asked by rabidmike1313 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to a school counselor about all of this. See if you can get into a tutoring program to help you catch up. You still have some time to catch up and graduate on time.
If the school can't help you with your study skills, see if your parents will spring for some kind of professional tutoring program to help you catch up.
About all you can do is knuckle-down and do your best. Pick up after yourself, do whatever chores are asked of you, stay out of trouble, and geep grinding away at the school work. If you show your parents that you really are sincerely applying yourself, they will reach out to help.
2007-11-13 15:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you want to change and i hope you can. talk to your parents. Really talk to them. Let them see you cry. Be real with them. It sounds to me like you might need some counseling to help you get over the hump and get your life back on track. If you show your parents that you really are trying this time, they might start to trust you again. It won't happen overnight and it will be hard work but it will be worth it in the long run.
2007-11-13 14:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by jenk1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel for ya. Talk to them and let them know how you feel just like the way you wrote this. They love you more than you can ever know and i'm sure they would like to talk too. Let them know that you would do anything to get there trust back and tell them how much they mean to you. Take care.
2007-11-13 14:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by myangelsfuture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a parent and in the event that they are telling you they do no longer approve of this guy it truly is for a sturdy reason, one you're able to desire to no longer comprehend or see. i replaced into your age at one ingredient and refused to hearken to my mom and dad rules through fact i presumed it replaced into severe and loopy yet looking back they had them for a reason. i comprehend you sense smothered yet your mom and dad are in basic terms doing it through fact they actually love you, to no longer smash your existence. have faith me in this. I had a boyfriend at 15 that my mom and dad didnt approve of and now i'm in my 30's with 4 teenagers, little training and their dad isnt there. they only choose for whats authentic for you in spite of if it sucks now. so a ways as gaining back have faith, they'd take a whilst yet in spite of you do dont deceive them anymore! greater beneficial to tell the fact and get it over with then enable it build like a snowball rolling down hill!
2016-10-02 07:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋