I was just woundering if you liked someone and she was a virgin would it turn you on and why and what type of things would you think about....just wounderin honest answers please <3
2007-11-13 13:38:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would prefer it not only because she is clean, but because you are the one to introduce her to new things that shes never fealt
2007-11-13 13:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure what advice to give, I'm wondering if you're a virgin yourself and was wondering how guys would feel?? It depends on the guy, some like it b/c they are your first partner and feel some sort of bragging rights to their buddies that they took your virginity, plus they would feel superior b/c they would think you'd be inexperienced and even if they were terrible in bed and didn't know what to do you'd be less likely to notice...personally, I generally treat women with respect so I would have to know her very well to have sex, women generally remember the first guy they have been with, also it would really hurt them to have sex and then break up a little while later so I would be worried about them getting really attached if it were just casual sex...it wouldn't turn me on and for guys that are turned on by it I think they are types I first talked about b/c women are only virgins once...although the thought doesn't really turn me on at least I know she's probably doesn't sleep around or acts promiscuous
2007-11-13 21:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really appricate a virgin, I have had 2 ex girlfriends that have been. I repect it because it means a girl repects herself and if you want a good guy this is the type of things they look for, but also the problem with virgins is that they will catch feelings and you will be caught in a relationship so i dont have sex with them unless i plan on being with them. I dont like anything eazy i get turned off with girls that have a had many partners or have even gone out with alot of guys, but thats me.
2007-11-13 21:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by highlite2nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends because if your a virgin then you are in deep trouble. If she is the only virgin then just spit some game and hit that. As for a girl being a virgin it not really a turn on becuase when u are screwing there is a big chance that you can tell
2007-11-13 21:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by spanishmvp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it would turn me on, but I would prefer a virgin over someone who has already had sex. I would just know that no other guy has had his way with her in that type of area. And virgins always come off as innocent and sweet.
2007-11-13 21:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a virgin is defintly a turn on for a guy no doubt. a guy would think about taking it slow (not sex but the relasionship in general) now if you are a cock block that is a diff story if you have been known to date guys for 6+months without sex then it is a turn off. but guy would think wow she is good and pure. but having sex a few times doesn't make u undesirable just don't let anyone have it.
2007-11-13 21:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by half dog 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me for just sex its kind of a turn off. shes going to bleed and she wont like it and she wont be good at it. shell just lay there cuz it hurts and she wont know what to do to make me feel good. But if i really liked her in a relationship way i might like it because id know she hasnt had any other guy before. but id also wonder if maybe shes neurotic or theres some weird reason shes still a virgin if she was over 19 or 20.
2007-11-13 21:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would be a turn on, because the guy would be thinking "YAY, no other guys goo has been here." or "She's mine." He'd be thinking this subconciously, he may realise it, but it's instinct not something he chooses to think. So don't hate the guy for something that is pretty much out of his control.
2007-11-13 21:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like the idea of being 'the first one', they see it as a conquest, or they got her to 'give it up'. Some guys perfer a more experienced partner. It all depends on the guy and his preferences.
2007-11-13 21:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by mcq316 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how important sex is to the guy ( if he doesn't think you can perform or if he likes to take control, if he wants to be the one to deflower you or if he is scared you will get too attached). Honestly, as long as your not extremely promiscuous or however you spell it, it would not matter to me.
2007-11-13 21:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by skware04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't like anyone at the moment. And if I did I wouldn't be sure to loose my virginity until I got to know her really good.
2007-11-13 21:41:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋