My girlfriend have been dating for almost three months now and we are so comfortable with eachother physically. They say to be open about sexuality. I love my girlfriend but its just time that we start having fun in different ways. She is not a slut and I just need to know how to pop the question.
2007-11-13 13:21:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think, you dunt need to pop the question and let it go with the flow, when the right time will come both of you will know its time. But if you pop the question she may get it the wrong way, and think that you just want that with her..So i think if you love her you can let it flow normally and not make things happen when they can happen by themselves ) Good luck
2007-11-13 13:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Zina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DON'T "pop the question".
Leave the ball in her court. If she wants to wait a year, three years, five years, that's her call. I can think of no better way for you to quickly end a good relationship than "popping the question" and having it go wrong. After three months you think it's time for the two of you to be having fun in different ways?
Wrong.
It's her call, and she'll let you know if/when she's ready.
2007-11-13 21:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Paul V 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you should sit down and discuss this calmly and don't put pressure on her. Just tell her that your ready to move on to a more physical relationship. If she isn't comfortable with it then wait.
2007-11-13 21:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by carrierofthetwins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "pop" any questions at all. When she's ready to have sex with you...she'll let you know in subtle ways. Then eventually, she'll want to just have sex. Let her give you big clues. For example, in my previous relationship my girlfriend said "One of these days...I'm gonna rape you". Of course she said it to be funny, but she let me know that she wanted to have sex with me.
2007-11-13 21:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Class 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Cut a hole in a box.
2. Put your junk in the box.
3. Make her open the box.
2007-11-13 21:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I UNDERSTAND YOUR SITUATION, BUT IF YOU TRULY LOVE HER YOUR GOING TO WAIT, BUT IF YOU JUST WANT SEX.......THEN I THINK YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR SOME ONE ELSE........SEX IS ALWAYS GOOD IN A RELATIONSHIP, BUT THE CUDDLING, AND GIGGLING, AND MOST IMPORTANT SPENDING TIME TOGETHER IS ALWAYS THE BEST PART OF IT BECAUSE THATS TRUE LOVE
2007-11-14 03:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by THE JOSE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter or calmy discuss it when the two of u are alone.
2007-11-13 21:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only been 3 months, dont be suprised if shes not ready.
2007-11-13 21:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by maria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is always best when it just happens naturally.
2007-11-13 21:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by stuartalexanderhucklebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel;l her you'd like to spend some quality naked time with her.
2007-11-13 21:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋