well, i really do find doing anything a chore. I am one of 9 of the friends I hang out with that has never had a BF or been on a date. I am lucky i have any friends at all. I am super lazy lately. I have been more negative than usual. I am crying so much, and i am mad a lot. I am miserable at home, and dread the next day. I am doing more risky and dangerous things because I think "hey what the hell, what could happen?" what is going on? why do i feel like this? how do i make it better? I really want a hug, but no one gets it...
2007-11-13 12:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by Beatle-Juice 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
look, I am NOT taking any kind of meds. I am taking pills to "make it all better", but am trying not to, cause i don't want anything unnatural in my body!!! no antidepressents, no pain killers. Have you seen the side effects on those things? "side effects may include.... hallucination, vomiting, worse feelings..." and I am like, "hallucination?? So I am a little sad, but i am not seeing f***ing Jesus in my fridge!!"
So, medicine, no thanks... you realize that if I had an exploding appendix, I'd rather deal with the pain than take a pain killer [worst case senario here] and, like, die.
2007-11-13 12:52:16 · update #1
I tottally kno wat u r saying! i feel the same way! but at least u hav friends i'm sure they can help maybe! if u want 2 talk email me girl! cuz i kno exactly how u feel! and i need a real friend human hug soooooooooo badly! Luv ya! gonna go cry now!
2007-11-13 12:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by emolover 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's probably hormones. They can make you cry for almost no reason and make you feel angry and have mood swings. 13 is a major time for hormones to fluctuate, giving you those weird feelings.
Don't even worry about not having a bf or going on dates yet, you're only 13!!! I didn't date till 16, and I never had any problem getting a bf anytime after that :) Just enjoy hanging out with your friends for now and stay busy with maybe a sport or art of some kind, so when you're feeling angry or upset you have an outlet.
2007-11-13 12:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Wintergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have may be depression, or it may be teen angst. Don't listen to ANYONE on here who tells you either way. Go see a therapist or a school counselor (a favorite teacher can help you find someone if you are not comfortable confiding in your parents) and let them work through it with you. And be wary of doctors who want to give you antidepressants right off the bat. They are a valid option, but they also have side effects that are often undesirable. Find a therapist that you trust, and that you feel understands you.
2007-11-13 12:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by tygrlili99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give you a hug.
The feelings you describe are very common in girls your age. I know that doesn't make it any easier to deal with, but hopefully you'll feel better knowing that you will probably grow out of it.
Hormones may play an important role, but there are so many factors that make this a tough time. Social pressures, changing priorities, decisions about who you are and what you want out of life (and how will you get it!), feelings of frustration that you can't fully control your own life 'cuz you're still a powerless kid ... all this serious stuff to worry about. Combined with raging hormones, it can be pretty miserable.
It does get easier. Hang in there.
2007-11-13 12:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by christnp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your feelings are actually normal, welcome to adolescence, a time of confusion, moodiness, and loneliness. If you get severely depressed seek help. Just remember everyone goes through what you are and the best people to talk to are probably your parents, if they are not available try confiding in an adult you can trust like an aunt or grandparent
2007-11-13 12:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by crazybutterfly1996 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen you're 13 years old, you have your whole life ahead of you. I know what you're going through, I'm in the midst of a depression right now. I wish I was 13 right now, you have no idea how lucky you are. Trust God, read the Bible, go to church. Seek God. He will comfort you and give you hope. This is no joke. God Bless and take care. Trust God
2007-11-13 12:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by GIOVAN R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really want to live a better life than that, email me and I can give you some information that may save your life.
2007-11-13 12:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might.
actually the hullucinations are pretty rare (just fyi) but i know what you mean about the meds. i hate them to.
i was diagnosed with depression when i was 11. for me, its naturally gotten better but is still here.
you might try seeing a shrink.
2007-11-14 07:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by The XShadowX Proves The Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋