I think my fiance is on drugs. Hes been acting the way he use to act while on drugs, he has the munchies all the time and his mom said that this guy billy called the house and I know for a fact that billy was his drug dealer a year ago. How can I confront him without him freaking out on me?
2007-11-13 11:27:51 · 7 answers · asked by camdensmommy07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok go up to him and say " *****, I ain't marrying you, you frikkn druggie like wtf, get a life"
something like that, but be straight forward, doubts are the reasons relations end, open up to him.
2007-11-13 11:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not easy stuff.
Firstly - know for yourself that you are worth it.
Then - Pick a time when there are other people around - preferably other of YOUR friends around.
Let them know the situation and have them keep an ear out for you.
Find a relatively secluded place where you can talk in relative privacy.
Explain your dilemma. Explain to him that you are not prepared to be involved with a person who is dependent on drugs. Explain to him that he can choose to live his life how he wants. If he doesn't stay clean one way or the other then he's choosing to have you out of his life.
Prepare to break up.
2007-11-13 11:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't confront an addict about their addiction without some freak out. You'll just have to let him. You need to set your own limits - can you marry him if he refuses to get clean?
2007-11-13 11:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you all are getting married then you should be able to talk about...if you confront him and he goes ballistic...maybe you shouldn't be with him anyway...if he does have a problem....tell him that in order for you all to get married he needs to get help...when confronting him...tell him you wont get mad...you will just want him to tell you the truth.....tell him that you love him and only want the best for you all....hope all goes well...
2007-11-13 11:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by livin' my life. (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way I know is by getting a bunch of his best friends and family, and comfront him. Grupal support.
2007-11-13 11:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could definitely get support from his family/friends
but if y'all are honestly engaged then you should be able to confront him straight up
2007-11-13 11:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a brick at his face.
2007-11-13 11:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by That's Mr Pepper to you. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋