My boyfriend really wants me to moan for him durning phone sex and i guess i am just afraid what it will sound like and i dont want him to think it sounded weird or something like that so what should i do
2007-11-13 11:11:18 · 15 answers · asked by Littlehime 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to fake it, don't do it. Even if he asks.
Obviously you don't have a problem having sex by yourself -- you know what I mean -- so work on that ALONE first. Once you get to the point where you HAVE to moan because it just feels so good, then you can have phone sex with him and deliver the real deal.
There are two opinions about faking it (which we can easily do and men don't know the difference). One says, just do it to please him and be done with it. The other says, don't do it because it's deceiving him, and if he ever realizes that you're faking it (because of a situation or you even admit it), he will never know whether he can trust you again, and he will always be self-doubting your climaxes.
So me, I prefer the second option. NEVER FAKE IT. And let him know that you will NEVER FAKE IT. If he hears you moan, it's the real deal, and it's because of him. And THAT'S what guys really want from the girl they love.
If he just wants to "get off" tell him to watch a porno instead.
2007-11-13 11:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a tape recorder and practice. Try different moans, low and high pitched. Maybe take care of yourself and record yourself while doing it. Then you will know what you REALLY sound like.
2007-11-13 19:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you had actual sex before? because if you have, just make the same moaning sounds that you do during sex. don't OVERDO it; sometimes soft little moans are better because they sound more genuine. the really loud moans/screams are just fakey. you could practice moaning to get used to it.
2007-11-13 19:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by buckeyeXOXOcutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could make the silliest, non-moan like sound for him and he would still love it. Don't be self concious about it because us men don't think into it that deeply. Just watch about 20 seconds of a porno, emulate that noise and he will flip.
2007-11-13 19:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by DrRocco 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just pleasure yourself so the moan naturally comes out
2007-11-13 19:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha-ha, that's a funny question. Just moan baby.
2007-11-13 19:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Phillip M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as lame as it sounds... practice. find a way to record yourself moaning and then play it back for yourself. this way to can assure yourself that you don't sound stupid. if he wants you to do it, the least you can do is try. if it ends up not working out then stop doing it.
2007-11-13 19:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's funny...
just moan the same way you moan when you have sex!!!
2007-11-13 19:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just do it. you might feel a little silly at first....but once you hear his reaction, you'll probably get into it.
pretend you're some sassy little sex kitten. be a bold, brash vixen. he'll really appreciate it.
2007-11-13 19:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by dropdeadcherry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything that makes you really uncomfortable...however if is fun to try new stuff once and a while...just give it a shot...you may love it!
2007-11-13 19:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Carolyn H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋