I went out with my ex on/off for 2 years.I needed to just have space from it all (the petty arguements, him being mean) so I tried to have no contact with him at school since we have a class together. I started to be very mean to him even though he was just trying to be nice. i had family issues,self worth, and friend issues going on which caused me to be kinda ignorant. we still talked at times and he texted me once every week for 2 months. I still cared about him a lot.he even called me to hang out but I told him I was busy. After that he stopped trying to talk to me. Its like were both invisible. His friend said hi and waved to me but my ex just looked and me and didnt say anything. I sent him a text a few nights ago saying congratulations on winning the game. and he texted back saying thanks lol i saw you in the stands.
Does this mean he cares about me or is he just being nice or what?
Side note- Theres a girl that waits for him after some of his classes.They aren't going out
2007-11-13 09:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think a little of both. It sounds like he's trying to forget about you which you can think, "He still cares," or, "he doesn't want me in his life." Ask the other girl what's happening between them, otherwise I don't know what to say
2007-11-13 09:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he cares and is being nice...you say you sent out off and on for 2 years so there has to be some amount of feelings there. sounds like you two are better off as friends at the moment and see other people, if you two were meant to be then in the future you will get back together
2007-11-13 09:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by T F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you might not like to hear this, but it's the best perspective I can give you.
He tried to get back together with you, but you ignored him. A guy will only hold out hope for so long, after 2 months you should have been making some kind of effort if you really wanted to get back together with him.
At this point, he's moved on. He's trying to be civil towards you, but I wouldn't expect him to become your best friend anytime soon.
2007-11-13 10:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to him, ask him if he has a fw minutes to chat, and then just ask him. at the end of that you will know. it may be what you want to hear or what you dont want to hear BUT at least you will know.
so what if he says he is not interested. it wont be the end of the world. there will be a few minutes of discomfort and then you move on because you deserve it.
dont try and guess what this may mean or what that may mean. just ask. do yourself a favor and save time, energy and emotional stress - just ask. it makes you the bigger, more mature person. and this way you know how to proceed and you are not hanging around, wondering.
2007-11-13 09:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by swelltoad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you still like him then try to talk to him. I don't know what to tell you about the other girl though! But good luck. Just talk to him ask him if he wants to go grab a bite whatever!
2007-11-13 09:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be unsure about how to approach you. You were nasty when he tried to make contact and now your upset he gave up. I think you need to resolve your issue before pursuing him again.
2007-11-13 09:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by enyeto1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probally at barely friend level righ now and that will be on him pretty fast if she isnt already, so best to move along, is his friend that waved at you hot? maybe you should try to get with him
2007-11-13 09:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by thumper j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that he might still care.
You will just have to come right on out and ask him.
2007-11-13 09:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must of hurt him bad when you was mean to him ,so his took whats left of his pride before you crushed it all and moved on
2007-11-13 09:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by mirrorbee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋