i could use a little helpp...?

Question

i like this guy, and im NOTT the kind of girl that can keep her own secret, so of corse i tell everyone. he said he liked me too.
but the problem is that my best friend is like in love with him (or so she claims). but i didnt know that until i let everyone else know. i thihnk i might really love him too though.the guy i like knows that she likes him too, but he doesnt like her. neither me or my friend is mad at each other for liking him. && she likes this other guy too, but the guy i like is the only one i like.
if i go out with him, would that effect our friend ship?
btw... i would never, and have never, let any boy get in the way of a friendship, so i just need a little help.

Answer 1

Then don't start, your morality better off then most people, so keep up the good work, if a friend wants them, then let them. You don't get good, deep, genuine relationships until you start amiting how ignorant and scared you are, your in high school, no one whats to do that, so it doesn't matter right now. The real worlds coming after graduations and everyone finally excepts these facts, THEN you can actually have a good relationship, until then, its training days, and its important to treat friendship better then some conditional commitment relationship in which neither one of you knows what the heck their doing, but figure love will save them, until you mature past that load of crap, you need to take what you know seriously, which is friendships, be smart, the world isn't an after school special, you know this, you feel this, act accordly, your doing better then most, I can say that honestly. So don't loss sight of what really matters, friendships......