im going out with this, guy. he doesn't go to school with me though. he is really great, and i really like him. but there is a guy at my school, who i think is kinda cute. i feel like i might still like him. but i don't know what to do. one of his friends is alwayse saying that i'm "in-love" with the boy at our school but just because i think someone is cute, doesn't meen i'm
"in- love" with them!
right?
i feel guilty about thinking this guy is cute when i have a boyfriend in a nother school!
is this ok?
what should i do?
HELP!
2007-11-13 09:11:28 · 49 answers · asked by Molly D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
eh. no problem. nothing wrong with liking other people or being atracted to them as long as you're sure where your heart lies. if you love the guy you're with, (or like him enough to be with him, and not the other guy) then don't worry about it. but don't get so caught up in lust that you'd risk leaving the guy you're with just to chase some 'probability'... You could lose a really great guy in the process. ;)
Good luck!!
2007-11-13 09:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by Silver Thunderbird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, im a guy so i should know.....ive been dating my girlfriend for 6 months, but we are in love so it may be different, you cant control who your mind thinks is cute or not, but you dont need to tell people you think hes cute and definantly not your boyfriend, if you like this guy he should be the most cutest guy in the world for you...im in love with my girl....i still know if another girl is pretty or not, but i never would think another girl is as pretty as my girlfriend...
2007-11-13 09:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its fine. Just dont say anything about this to ur boyfriend hell get jealous..but dont start anythign with the other guy. Its not that bad...i mean have you ever heard ur mom or another married women say that a guy is cute? Same thing here!
Good luck!
2007-11-13 09:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with thinking the guy is cute, just don't put moves on him or anything. And the guy that keeps saying you're in love with the other guy, he needs a love life himself.
2007-11-13 09:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok to think another guy is cute as long as you dont decide to anything about it..but if you have more feelings for this guy at your school you may have to tell your other boyfriend..it would be for the best ..x
2007-11-13 09:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're allowed to think another boy is cute, because hey, it's more than difficult to ignore something like that. As long as you don't do anything with this boy, and remain faithful to your boyfriend, there shouldn't be a problem.
2007-11-13 09:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Zombi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to check out other people when you're in a relationship. It's extremely common, so you don't have to do anything. As long as you don't start a relationship with this boy while you're still going out with the other, you'll be fine. You can't just turn your hormones off, lol :]
2007-11-13 09:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to think other guys are cute. If you're in a relationship, it is NOT okay to:
-tell your dude about it
-get with the cute dude
-flirt with said cute dude
You are taken. Either break it off with your boyfriend or deal.
2007-11-13 09:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's fine for you to think another guy is cute. Heck, it's just human nature! But make sure you think hes cute and thats it. If you begin to really like him, try to picture yourself with him instead of your boyfriend. But I would just ignore it and stick to the first guy.
2007-11-13 09:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by @nim@l Lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature to notice other ppl. Being in a relationship does not make you blind to other guys. As long as you are NOT acting on any feelings its cool! Would you feel as guilty if you saw a female that you thought was "pretty"??? I find nothing wrong with being normal! =}
2007-11-13 09:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ðñê £ðvê♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋