Met a great guy 3 wks ago. Great vibe. Had first date 11 days ago. So fun! Met for drinks after work. That led to dinner then dessert at another restaurant. Easy conversation, lots of flirting, laughing & fun. The evening ended the next morning waking up late at his place. Great chemistry. Lots of snuggling in the morning. 9 days ago, I sent friendly email just saying hello. He responded quickly, & we bantered back & forth through Tuesday, during which we talked about our first date & he made references to a "next time". Then no contact for 3 days. On Friday I invited him to join me for a movie on Sunday afternoon. He responded quickly thanking me for the invite, that sounds like fun, I'll call on Saturday if I can make it, I've had the flu since Tues. He never called. No contact since then. Who should make the next move at this point?
2007-11-13 08:53:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he should.....or I will =D
2007-11-13 08:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It technical his move but there are some gray areas in there. I would call and see how he is feeling since he had the flu. If you dont get to talk to him Leave him a message asking how hes feeling and that you just wanted to check up on him since you knew he had had the flu. Wish that he was felling better leave your number but dont say anything about the movie date he missed. If he calls with in 3 days and says sorry for missing out on your movie date. Give him a chance. If he doesnt call. Youll know better than to give so much on a 1st date.
2007-11-13 17:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Royal B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its seems like you are making the effort. Not sure what the ordeal is with this person. Maybe he's married or in a relationship. You should just ask him straight up, or you'll be waiting around for nothing. Sometimes games are played and the only possible thing to do bout it is to confront it. No big deal, hey lost one good one....there's plenty out there...But i know, its a dime a dozen. You have nothing to lose. GL!
2007-11-13 17:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by tiki_bo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait for him to contact you. You have sent him an email and contacted him again since then so I would definitely wait on him. Don't wait too long though. I he hasn't called you in a couple of days I would give up. Good Luck!
2007-11-13 16:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him.
Romance is not a chess game. You don't know each other so well and are establishing the basic patterns of your relationship. It's best to communicate openly and honestly.
Be direct. Don't second guess.
2007-11-13 16:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ego 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i would say make sure there is no one else he is dateing besides you...ony because the flu is a lame excuess. but if not then wait until he calls you..u already tried so if hes really worth it hell make the effort to contact you. or be open with him and say "hey I really like you and i wanna be serious do u feel the same way" or along those lines....
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Gooood Luck**
2007-11-13 17:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Tabby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say its up to him since you are already showing interest in him.. Just be careful beacuse men are hard to understand and you might end up getting hurt, but I hope that things go well for you:)
good luck
2007-11-13 16:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to make the next move. Honestly you have done enough. He needs to make the next move to show he is actually interested in you and not trying to avoid you. Just wait if he is interested he will definitely call you back. It seemed like you two have chemistry.
2007-11-13 16:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
def. him. i dont know if you are a male or female. theres nothing needier than someone who asks to do something 2 times in a row- its a ridiculous game- dating- but stand strong! if you are a female- thats even more reason to wait for him.
2007-11-13 17:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space. . . you just went on a date. He's probably got other women that he's dating so don't jump to any conclusions that you're a couple because you slept with him.
2007-11-13 16:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem interested...very interested. Sorry but he doesn't seem the same. I really would let this go. If you want to be with someone nothing will stop you. Something is stopping him.
2007-11-13 16:57:58 · answer #11 · answered by carolynjlalena 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋