This school year I made a new friend and I am starting to like her. I found out (via a fake e-mail adress) that I "only appeal to [her] as a friend". I also found out that she likes someone else but I don't know who. We talk all the time but I do not have enough self-confidance to ask her and am worried it might taint our friendship if I do. I really want her to like me back.
-thanks
2007-11-13 08:47:58 · 30 answers · asked by bob s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be there for her. let her know that if she ever needs to talk that youll be there to listen. eventually she might fall for you. just be her friend is all i can say.
2007-11-13 08:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this strong about it, just ask her out. But, be warned - If the relationship doesn't work out, there's a good chance, you can ruin the friendship. Go with your heart. Since you found out that she likes someone using a "fake" e-mail address, she may have meant YOU since she didn't know who was on the other side of the PC. :) You don't want to worry about the "What If?" later, right?
2007-11-13 16:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by ♪♫ ßr0wn Eyǝd G!rl ツ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only thing you could really do is start chilling with her outside of school. Get her number and try calling her sometime during the week and ask her to chill with u. Try to analyze her by talking to her more of what she likes or dislikes and then you go from there. Only time will tell after chilling abunch when she will develop true feelings for you. If she doesn't, who cares, now you got yourself a good friend, and one day she might just be all over you, It happened to me.
2007-11-13 16:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kaden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her that much the best thing is for you to be HONEST! Tell her how you feel and let her know that if she doesnt feel the same then you can remain friends. She will respect you more, maybe even look at you differently because she's aware that you value the little things such as a simple friendship.
2007-11-13 16:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's interested in someone else at the moment, your best bet is to take things slow.
I'd suggest flirting with her a bit but you say she's only interested in you as a friend... so don't get your hopes up just to end up dissapointed.. I'd work on my confidence if i were you before anything.
Women like a man with confidence but not overly cocky.
2007-11-13 16:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that "fake" email address was true...it could happen! I dont know...its very hard to tell you. Um...if you had an interest in her...even a little you should have told her at the beginning because guys can easily become just friends to girls. I dont know what to tell you. a good clue would be if she shows interest back....if she doesnt then dont try to get her to notice you in that way. Good luck!
2007-11-13 16:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't need to wait that long, because if you wait she might find a guy who likes her and if she likes him tell fall in love,Here's what you need to do.Go up to her during school and start flirting talk about who she likes see if she thinks if anybody is dreamie that she likes then get enough confidence to ask her out andsee how things turn out.
Your Welcome,
sassy_cierra
2007-11-13 16:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Cierra B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but u are a stalker if u are using a fake email adress to talk to a girl. if not go for it. YOU HAVE NOTHING to LOSE and everything to gain. Trust me!
2007-11-13 16:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Me♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her in person I no how u feel i did the same thing with a guy. I told him i liked him through email but i never told him it was me i pretended to be someone else. then later when i told him he liked me to. Go up to her let her no how u feel and if she says no move on. find someone else
2007-11-13 16:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a friend of hers who she likes some one you can trust and if you can find out from that friend it will help you decide on what to do.
2007-11-13 16:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to get a friend to become more than a friend. It is always when I meet my friends in the first time, they are trying to become more than a friend.
If you are really like this girl, you should be dedicate to her, show her your admiration to her in many ways, care her, do what she like...
2007-11-13 16:55:55 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋