I DONT understand!!?

Question

How come everyone else meets someone and they just seem to click and start dating?! Every time -and I mean every time- I meet a guy that I like and I think he likes me something always happens. Then it goes downhill!!! I am getting so depressed. I hate this so much.

Answer 1

You have to know why or consult yourself if there's anything wrong.

Take it easy, it's not ONLY YOU who are experiencing that. Maybe guys that you're meeting is not right for you, maybe somehow there's SOMEONE who's there for you.

Think positive, and don't be depressed. There are more cute guys out there, maybe the right one for you aren't come. Just hold on tight and enjoy life as always.

Goodluck! :)

Answer 2

a) What kind of guys are you meeting ? Maybe a different group is what would help.

b) The issue is perception: everyone else does not walk off into the sunset arm in arm with sweet music in the background - they will have their full share of difficulties. They may not be airing their dirty laundry in public - why should they ?

c) There is no reason for depression - this is normal life. What we want does not come when we want, nor how we want, nor in the way we wanted it, or it's the wrong color....but if we are fortunate (and wait a bit) sometimes it does come along.

d) "Know thyself!" - Socrates. Much of what seems to "just happen" is actually things we do but are not aware of. The better you know yourself, the less this can happen. Just think - a whole category of mysterious surprises will vanish someday from your life ! I did it, and I know others who did it as well.

e) How was your father like ? 95% of us go for what we know - the most familiar to us is the parent of the opposite sex. Something to consider. Many people don't figure this out until their first few long terms and even first marriage are all over. Save time. Start thinking now.

f) Really, if you hate the process, why not opt out for a while? Maybe you are trying to force something that the timing just isn't there. Honestly, people do find each other often when they aren't even looking. There is such thing as trying too hard.

Hope this helps.

Peace,

;-)

Answer 3

You know it just seems like everyone else is getting luckier then you right now. There are days where everyone goes through this. Right now all my girlfriends are breaking up or having issues, but six months ago they were all on a lucky streak.
My point is everyone goes through slumps and all you need to do is ask yourself what your really looking for. A casual date or something serious? Go back and look at how you acted on your dates. Maybe your putting out the wrong vibe. You will hit your lucky streak soon, look at this as a learning experience for the lucky guy who will meet you!

Answer 4

first thing u do is calm down your life is not over yet lets see u, there's a guy u see then start to like then something goes wrong? well here's my answer to your problem.
if u go right to the guy and say hi then ur being a good person but u have to see how the guy acts anything can happen if u dont see it before it does try to find out if the guy has a gf if not then try to be friends with the guy u like and then try to get along with them for as long a u can dont show your lovey dovy side yet keep calm and dont even try toget to close to them like u think your gonna get them right away, any ways as i speak think how this guy will like u back and make sure u dont blow it u only get a chnace if your lucky u might get another chance at it but its always the first one that counts sooner or later if u keep calm the guy will ask u for your phone number dont give it to them but give them your email or something else dont rush so fast it wont work if u do then when u have him for a week then u can give them your phone number if they feel lucky in other words u must give it to them in your mind of thoughts
hey if u need more edfise then im here to help
NEW GUY KILLERX

Answer 5

dating is not only a mixture of "liking".

You let somone into your heart; the opposite to how you
(should)feel about your boss. They and you "get things done"

You might want to go-places with your date;he may think
that you are perfect as you are-and thus not want to go
or rather will want to go there more slowly that you.
There are many downhills;but most are looking for them from the safety of the flat road.
Most maybe wrong;but remember,too;you can never know most,you just need to look to the open and flat road,and accept the bumps along the way.

Answer 6

Tell me about it
I am now 22 I have never rally had a boyfriend
I ALWAYS fall for the taken. I am starting to get depressed as well.
I will be graduating college next year and I still have no boyfriend.
I am starting to wonder what is wrong with me.
All we can do is wait for God's timeing.
Just wait is what people tell me.
I am begging to wonder if I will ever meet someone.
I cannot imagine my life alone.
I would rather die than spend my life alone.
We have to have faith and believe that someday it will happen.
At least I know I am not the only one right now.

Answer 7

You will be fine....Just let things play out, eventually you will meet someone and YOU will be the one that clicks and starts dating. No need to get upset about it, everything happens for a reason, maybe the man upstairs has a special plan for you and someone else. Hope all goes well

Answer 8

It's happened to me before too. But don't let it bother you too much. Its like fate is telling you "He's not the right one," or "The time hasn't come." Don't worry, that time'll come.
As a suggestion, try going to places like the mall or restaurants more often. Go with a friend, and be careful of where you go. Some guys may look nice and peaceful on the outside, but can be really mean when you get to know them...

Answer 9

some people often are just easy going, going with the flow, others actually care what happens in a relationship. people who will put up with anything often get a lot of relationships and they may seem to last long but consider that most would never marry those people. the people who have terrible relationships tend to have less but the long lasting relationships are more meaning-full. don't stress it, some people get the good ones later but it's well worth it.

Answer 10

Maybe you are picking the wrong guys. Hang in there. And, dont fall for the first guy who gives you attention. Good luck!! Oh, and care about yourself and take good care of you so you feel good about yourself. If you are depressed and expressing that to guys, that may be a turn off. Act confident and the guys will come running.