So what should I do?
2007-11-13 08:15:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your just thinkin about it to hard. In my personal experiance, if a guy approached me and came to a loss of words, I would feel complimented. Just be yourself and dont give any cheap lines. I would think you are soooo charming and probably ask you out myself to take the preasure off your hands! Good luck
2007-11-13 08:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a bad thing to be outgoing but sometimes when your to outgoing it tends to make you say things you probably regret. You have to know when to far is, sometimes you may say something you think is funny but to that person it may not be so just try and watch what you say. And you know what even if you are outgoing it is sometimes intimidating to talk to a very attractive person so just take your time and think about what you want to say. Be who you are because if the person doesn't like you for you than they don't deserve you. Just think before you speak, and think before you act.
2007-11-13 08:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Passions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL treat her like an audience, think of her in her underwear. XD
No seriously don't. XD Ok, it takes confidence and time to get over. I had that problem with many crushes. Over time I became able to overcome or correct those mistakes. I dunno I guess practice actually does perfect. But for me, it just took time to overcome with practice, although few didnt mind it lol. If you let their beauty block your train of thought, than you may not be ready. You have to learn to concentrate. You can then try finding a similar interest or show some affection toward them. I did, yet im still single unfortunately (sigh).
2007-11-13 08:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 17 I had the same problem. The best thing you can do is to not allow yourself to get discouraged. Keep digging and eventually it will be like second nature. Plus women respond better to someone who is confident and sure of themselves. Looks aren't as important as you might think. Good Luck!!!
2007-11-13 08:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got to no what to say see what i do is go up 2 a girl and say hey wuz up then i say my name and after a while i ask 4 hers but u just got to take Ur time after a Lil while in the conversation ask her if she would like to call u sometime
2007-11-13 08:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to accomplish a lot in a single conversation. All you need to accomplish is that find it at least vaguely pleasant, so that she's interested in talking to you again.
More generally, treat her like you would, say, a distant cousin, or the sister you really liked of a friend you really like. I.e., treat her as somebody who it's natural to be nice to, more than as somebody you want to "score" with.
2007-11-13 08:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol its because your nervous/tongue tied. girls kinda think its cute when guys stumble over words a little bit, we are flattered by it. theres really nothing you can do until you get used to talking to pretty girls, especially ones that you like because that makes it even harder. just try to focus on what your saying tho. when your talking dont stare at her mouth or her clothes or anything look in her eyes and even thats kinda hard but it helps you focus. and if it helps look away every once in a while to collect yourself but look back within seconds otherwise we think your getting distracted.. hope this helps. good luck!
2007-11-13 08:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by you me i'm your daisy☮ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha girls like that! its cute!! dont be so nervous, we really dont care what you do or say or what you dont do r say! be urself (blah blah blah) nd be nice! dont try to impress anyone you'll do that anyway by being urself! we're a lot more forgiving than you think!!
if you dont know what to talk about, hang around for a while, and find out what she likes, nd what you have in common, so that you can talk about something your used to talking about, and you wont screw up!
good luckxxxx
2007-11-13 08:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you are lacking confidence!
Just believe in yourself and what you have to offer her and then go "sell" yourself!
What girl wouldn't love to be around an outgoing guy??
Good luck :=)
2007-11-13 08:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by Trina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, treat her like you would treat anyone else you had jsut met. Introduce yourself, have a joke with her andf just relax. And remember she is probably jsut as nervous as you.
or could do the old trick of jsut kiss her...its then cuts out awkwardness hahaha
2007-11-13 08:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋