He just moved here and Im actually his only friend. We just got back froma trip with his family. He and I are way different but we we knew that. We got in a fight the other night and i said somethings I shouldnt have but that next morning I bought a card that said "I love you", and that I hope we work things out. Then he said that he needed space.
2007-11-13 07:42:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know what girlfriend...Don't call or write and he will think he's loosing you and jump right back.... I had the same thing happen and that made me want to be with him more then he kept shrugging me off but as soon as I stopped all that attention he came literally"crying" back..... take my advise
2007-11-13 07:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by sdmr41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it, kiddo, but run as fast as you can. Actually, you don't have to run, he has already expressed his desire to do just that. And, if he did indeed just move "here" and you are already feeling in love with him, you haven't given yourself or him enough time to get to know each other.
Go on with your life, date others if you have the opportunity. When he calls, if he calls, you can assess then whether you want to see him one more time and determine just what it is he wants.
By the way, since he just moved, is there some other girl back where he came from? If so, don't get upset, just remember all the frogs that are there along the way and you will meet a fair share of them until the right one comes along.
Good luck.
2007-11-13 07:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by ozarks bum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well two reasons, one he is just saying that to hurt you and make you respond like you are. Get upset, feel bad, and will in the future (after you make up) be hesitant to argue with him again. Basically letting him get his way. This is a pretty immature response to a fight so I'm guessing you're late teens to early 20's.
The second reason is he really wants you to bug off for a while. Whether he wants to decide if he really likes you and wants to stay with you. Or, he met some other girl and this is a great opportunity to explore that relationship with you out of the picture. Or, he really has decided he doesn't want to remain boyfriend and girlfriend with you anymore. That is a possibility too.
2007-11-13 07:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he might wanna break up with you but he doesn't know how to tell you! So try to make him feel a comfortable as possible but not that comfortable cause he might think your weird! So tell him what is wrong if he stills have feelings for you if he stills say give me some space then just tell him its not working out or something! G0od luck!
2007-11-13 07:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Meli(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone needs their space,and once in a while time 2 b by themselves,even u....there is nothing wrong with that! onec in a while,we all need a break from things,loved ones,friends ,job etc, 2 center ourselves,have time and space 4 ourselves,in order just 4 a break from all that is!
2007-11-13 07:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only see each other on weekends and he needs space, it means he's looking to dump you for another. He's prowling to see if another girl will want him. You should just dump the loser. No guy is worth a waste of your time. He will just keep stringing you along keeping you clse enough just in case he can't get anybody else.
When we want a girl, we go after her, we can't spend enough time with her.
2007-11-13 08:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the middle advance fonder as they say! Take time out and spend time which incorporate your buddies this weekend on a similar time as he's away. shop busy and he's often lacking you so do no longer concern. each and every healthy relationship desires it sluggish aside each and every so often. the reality that he apologized is sufficient at this degree.
2016-11-11 09:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went out of ur way to say u love him on a card and he said he needs space? Forget him, get someone who appreciates you.
2007-11-13 07:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like whatever you said really hurt him and because of that he's distancing himself from you. Whatever you did, I'd suggest you fix it. Buying a card and saying "I love you" may not be enough.
Sometimes guys just need space, so don't be afraid to give it to him.
2007-11-13 07:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space and in the meantime, go out and do things with your family and friends. Keep yourself busy.
2007-11-13 07:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋