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It seems as if waiting until marriage and going to church (really believing) is so hard

2007-11-13 06:24:12 · 18 answers · asked by Ebony E 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

18 answers

If you want a good religious man you are not going to find him.

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2007-11-13 06:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kenneth G 6 · 0 2

Ebony,
I believe that I would begin looking in the Lord's Church. We have a wonderful group of young men and women at our services who would make great husband/wife for those who would be looking. We also have a large group of married couples with young children and some more "on the way". We have a number of grandparents and young people who are not yet old enough to be dated. I expect that in a Church near you should be about the same make up of people. We meet twice every Sunday and once midweek as a Bible Study. Have a wonderful week.
Thanks,
Eds

2007-11-13 14:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Eds 7 · 0 0

It is hard, but anything worth really doing is hard. If life was easy, it wouldn't be worth living. Try going to church. You can meet a man who attends there. But keep in mind that jsut because he goes to church, doesn't make him a good man.

As cliche as this sounds, pray for one. Pray for someone to share your life with who will treat you with respect and love God as well. Remember, the Lord answers us in mysterious ways.

But in order to be with a religious man, you need to be a religious woman.

2007-11-13 14:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Meghan 7 · 1 0

Go to church.

2007-11-13 14:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Rollover Mikey 6 · 1 0

You ask if anyone can tell you such.

I am certain that someone can.

But you might look among the synagogues of Jerusalem, and you will indeed come across many good religious people.

2007-11-13 14:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Gam Zo Letovah 3 · 0 1

Pray for God to send you a person that is compatible with you daily. If you are sincere and mean it with your heart God will provide a partner.
Thats what I did and God finally sent me nice, loving partner

2007-11-13 14:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honey, don't go searching for a man and marry the first one who asks just so you can have sex. You'll be miserable. Sheesh.

2007-11-13 14:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by AngFlowr 4 · 1 0

Ted Haggard is fine. He is more into men though but he brings the meth, the lube and the condoms.

2007-11-13 15:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Matthew Mark Luke and John. Outside of there good luck.

2007-11-13 14:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Someone sent me this today. I read it this morning. It's too good not to share with you...and mighty pertinent to your question! It has some strong words in it, so read with care.

For those of us who are single or married --be blessed by this word!

1. When a woman marries, it ought to be to someone who is capable of taking her to the next level.

2. If she comes from poverty, there is no reason for her to get married and still be impoverished. The role of the man is to take her to another place.


3. When she gets married, she ought to dress better, drive better, live better, and eat better, not constantly be in a struggle over where her next meal is coming from. My grandmother used to say, "I can do bad all by myself."


4. For a woman desiring a mate, the objective, of course, would be to find a Christian man, who's settled, has goals, accomplishments and a job. But, a goal-oriented and focused man can't just be approached any kind of way.


5. So the woman who seeks this type of stability must make sure that she stands out above the crowd:

“ Make sure your relationship with the Lord is strong and growing.”
“ Make sure that you are presentable.”
“ Working from the inside out, your presentation should be representative of both who you are and whom you seek.”
“ Appearance is a reflection of how you see yourself. “
“ Have the ability to hold an intelligent conversation.”
“ And most importantly, allow the Holy Spirit to take control.”
“ You don't need to go after him. He's going to come after you, because after he sees and smells you and knows that you're in his presence, he's going to want to know who you are!”


I know there's somebody reading this, who has been chasing after the man of your dreams, but God says, "Just sit still and allow patience to have her perfect work through Me." Furthermore, it's never a good idea to be too forward and too aggressive.


“ Attempting to win a man's affection by jumping into bed with him will only backfire and cause him to lose interest in ever developing a lasting relationship.


“ It causes him to lose respect for you and question your character. However, if he sees that you are dressed with quality, that you smell like you are somebody; that you look like you're doing fine without him, then that will attract the right attention from him. He'll have no choice but to give you his attention.


“ Stop looking so needy, climbing into bed, trying in vain to capture a man's heart!
God woke me up in the middle of the night and said, "The same thing that Naomi told Ruth to do is the same thing that I want them to do for me." God is so sick of saints coming to Him trying to get a quickie and never romancing Him for Who he is - going to church screaming, shouting and hollering, but hadn't been intimate with God all week long!


Stop trying to treat God like a sugar daddy and start romancing Him with worship and praise: "I'm yours Lord...everything I've got everything I'm not!"
The God we serve, which is the God of love, demands and requires of us foreplay before He gives us what we need. In the book of Ruth, the mother-in-law tells Ruth, "You have to wash." John 15:3 reminds us, "now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you."


When you sit in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, you are taking a shower. When you hear the unadulterated word of God, then the dirt and grime that you've accumulated all week long begins to wash off you. Ask God to "create in you a clean heart and renew a right spirit." Stand in the word! Then wait upon the Lord to renew your strength!

Pass this on to those who think they have found or are seeking Mr. Right.

2007-11-13 14:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by mgs4Real 3 · 0 1

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