Can your tongue be white whenever you don't brush your teeth?

Question

I am 19 years old. I am a virgin waiting for marriage. I DO NOT use IV drugs. My parents are completely healthy. However, I kissed this guy. (I DO NOT know if he has HIV or not). Anyways, I have heard that you can get HIV from kissing if both people are bleeding however, I didn't taste any blood from him and I wasn't bleeding. however I did have this opened flap on my gums. It is ALWAYS been there. It was not bleeding and this kiss was open mouthed, oxygen present and it was a 2 second kiss.

Now the reason that I have given you all of this info is because I have these rough patches on the roof of my mouth that are like plaque and my tongue has white stuff on it. I brush my teeth and it isn't as bad. Is this from HIV from that kiss or not?

Also...I took an HIV test this morning. It has been 6 weeks and 4 days since that kiss. How accurate will the results be whenever I get them back?

Please help me out! I am so confused and scared!

Is my tongue white from not brushing? is it hiv?

Answer 1

THE ONLY WAY TO GET HIV IS FROM SHARING NEEDLES, HAVING ORAL SEX WITH AN INFECTED PERSON OR INTERCOURSE. THE NIV TEST IS VERY ACCURATE. UNLESS THIS BOY HAS BLEEDING GINGIVITIS YOU CAN'T GET HIV FROM A KISS.
YOU MAY HAVE A CASE OF THRUSH (AKA, CANDIDA) IN FECTION. THIS IS EASY TO TREAT BY YOUR DOCTOR.
INVEST AND START USING A TONGUE SCRAPER.
HAVE YOUR DENTIST CHECK OUT THIS FLAP AND SEE IF IT NEEDS TREATMENT.

Answer 2

It is very rare if not impossible to get HIV just from kissing so I would think this would be the least of your concerns. You should read up more on HIV and how it's transmitted so you won't be so worried or obsessed about it.

You should always brush your tongue when brushing your teeth. But if it's on the roof of your mouth as well, it sounds like something more than just lack of hygiene. You may have Thrush which is very common and simple to get rid of -- the doctor will give you antibiotics. Speaking of which, you should go to the doctor to be diagnosed.

Info on Thrush in adults:

Candida, the yeast that causes thrush, is normally present in small amounts in the mouth and on other mucous membranes. It usually causes no harm. However, when conditions are present that allow the yeast to grow uncontrolled, it invades surrounding tissues and becomes an infection.

Not caring for your teeth can make thrush more likely to develop. This is especially true in people who have false teeth (dentures).

Taking antibiotic or inhaled medications may lead to thrush. These medicines may upset the balance of bacteria in the mouth.

Thrush can be a mild infection that causes no symptoms. However, if symptoms do develop, they may include the following:

Thrush in adults starts as white patches that adhere to the mouth and tongue.

Treatment is with antifungal medicines, in the form of pastilles that are sucked or oral suspensions that are held in the mouth before swallowing.

Answer 3

White tongue is from not cleaning your mouth right, and white tongue can cause really bad breath. This has nothing to do with HIV. Try a tongue scraper,and also try Thera Breath toothpaste and mouthwash you can find them at Walgreens and Walmart. Why did the kiss only last 2 seconds, did he stop you, maybe it was because your breath was kickin. Im not being mean but that is what happens when your tongue is white, you have all kinds of bacteria on it. Click on the link below and find out more about your problem.

Answer 4

It is SO unlikely that it's HIV that I would 100% rule it out. Your tongue gets white from bacteria. I notice that everytime I kiss someone different, I have this very badly for a few days because you just swapped bacteria with that person. The best solution is to just brush your tongue.

Answer 5

Your tongue can be white/grayish from not brushing, but it sounds to me like thrush. You can get a yeast infection in your mouth that causes symptoms similar to what you're describing, babies often get it from having milk or formula sitting in their mouths. It could also be bacterial. You should have your Dr. check it out, but I'm sure you're fine! HIV usually doesn't present in that nature, that I've ever heard!! Good luck!

Answer 6

I really dont think you have caught HIV. It is very unlikely to catch this from a kiss unless you both have open sores in your mouth, and even then is unlikely. The film on your tounge could be many things including plack and even oral thrush is a possibility (a fungle infection, easilly cleared with antibiotics) I would speak to your GP with all your concerns and he/she should be able to set your mind at ease. Im not sure about the accuracy of the HIV test, I think it can take up to 12 weeks to show but again you can check this with your GP. I have never heard of the probelms you have described being any thing to do with HIV, the early sympoms of which are usually mild cold symtems, dont be scared if you have had these as it could just be a cold!! Another strong possibility is that you have Oral Leukoplakia, with this thickened white patches develop on the lining of the mouth and/or toungue. The patches develop painlessly and often start at the sides of the tounge...your GP or dentist will be able to look at your mouth and diagnose you propaly but please try not to worry. If you cant wait to speak to your GP contact NHS 24 on 08454 242424, U can speak to a nurse who will hopefully be able to set your miind at ease. I hope this has helped, and again try not to worry!! take care xx

Answer 7

That is not a sign of HIV-its a sign of major bacteria and germs that you probably got from him. He probably doesnt have very good hygiene.

The white on your tongue is plaque and bacteria, so make sure you brush your tongue good and it will go away.

Use Listerine twice a day and floss, and youll be fine.

To be safe go to the dentist.

Answer 8

Red blood cells are in SALIVA!

YOU can be Overly Scared but you should NOT be Concerned!

WHY.... Don't YOU save Kissing..... for Marriage?

WHEN.... the Right ONE comes along..... YOU WILL KNOW!

KISSING.... can be A "Deceptive" Way..... TO FIND THE RIGHT ONE!

There are Clamidia Viruses [ over 40 ] that are Transmitted by MEN.... and they are NOT Affected by it.

See the CDC Web site for MORE! http://cdc.gov/

Thanks for Asking ! RR

Answer 9

sounds like you could have a yeast infection in your mouth. You can also have canker sores or something. definately go to the doctor they can give you something and let you know for sure what it is. try rinsing your mouth out with warm water and salt. that helps with those kinds of things sometimes. Good luck- and see a doctor!

Answer 10

Not sure about your symptoms, but I do know HIV tests are only accurate when taken 3-6 months after the potential exposure.