i've been there. its very hard to quit a hateful job when the money is really good. so i would make excuses, put off the job search, and so on. i too waited for that next bonus. it came when they finally let me go! in hindsight, i wished i had revved up my job search while i was working there. i would not EVER quit a job without having another. just keep plugging, and you will find a better fit. don't be afraid to take a cut in pay. eventually, i found a job i really like, and even though its less money, you can't put a price on happiness and in having pride in what you do. good luck!!
edit: if it was me, and i was SURE i had another job lined up, i'd be giving exactly 1 week notice, as long as i had plenty of great references from other jobs. (and I do!!)
2007-11-13 05:29:50
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answered by Buzzy 7
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If the bonus is equal or more than two weeks pay, I would stay. If it isn't, you must decide if you really want/need the money, because another 6-10 weeks (depending when in Jan.,) is a long time to put up with the crap for not a whole lot of bonus. Interesting situation, let me know what you do!!
2007-11-13 05:25:20
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answered by Anonymous
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I was in a similar situation a while back. I had gone from enjoying my job to the point where I dreaded heading to work each day.
I would not put a time limit on your job search. Money is nice, but if something good comes along before January, give the required notice and finish your job with a smile. At the same time, I wouldn't rush to leave. Take time to figure out what you want from a job, and then which job will give you what you are looking for.
Don't burn bridges you don't have to, no matter how bad it is. Your new employer might know someone in your current organization, business can be a very small world.
During the interview process when you are asked why you want to leave your current job, just tell them you have exhausted all your opportunity there and are looking for a new challenge. Don't lie, but they don't want to hear you bad mouth your current employer. Turn it around ad tell them you are more interested in talking about this new opportunity with their company.
2007-11-13 05:32:02
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answered by John K 3
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Don't start looking in January, look now. BUT be sure the company doesn't catch wind of it or they may find some bogus reason to cut you loose the day before the cut off of the bonus. So put the word out and let prospective employers know that you can't start until January and give a date. Some will be happy to extend that privilege. Be careful. That way you can get the check and check out. do you get your vacation if you give 2 weeks notice. be sure to cover that also.
2007-11-13 05:28:08
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answered by Uncle Red 6
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Only if you want to be a doctor or nurse. It may seem like it is not worth it right now. Keep in mind, they may just be trying to weed out the people who can't take it. Don't take it personally, it has nothing to do with you as a person. That is the hardest lesson to learn in business. Once you take that advice to heart, everything gets easier. Good luck and hang in there. You will laugh about it one day.
2016-05-22 23:40:33
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answered by ? 3
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Sounds exactly like the job I had! I quit! But I did give my two week notice. However I miss the benefits...(State job!) and the paychecks! Would it help you to persevere til you get your bonus knowing that you get to leave soon? If that helps you, you should stay and work with a little smirk on your face knowing you won't have to be there for too long more! Plus the Xmas party and all the goodies that come with it!
2007-11-13 05:30:48
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answered by gmoney 3
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if you can make enough to get by happily in a new job, and you don't need the "bonus" money, then why not? There's no point sticking with something you don't like - it'll only bring you down... as long as you don't have big bills or whatever, don't put yourself through the hassle!
BUT - make sure you WILL get a good job before you tell your boss, it could all go very wrong otherwise...
2007-11-13 05:30:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Of course, you are the only one who can REALLY answer this question.
In the meantime, I applaud your method of STAYING PUT until a better opportunity presents itself...
Or, perhaps you'll create the best job for you -- just watch the $$ foundation for it.
My advice is to take the emotion out of the equation by representing it in a PRO/CON list for staying in the job vs. when to leave it.
'Hate this job' might be written in bold caps & enlarged over several lines, but if you can then stand back and examine EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE, you can make a logical decision. After that, you can USE that logical decision to make the REAL decision.
Bravo on asking for input. If you run into a brick wall on this, I'd suggest you read the latest version of the book 'What color is your parachute?' It'll help you ask the right questions.
Still having trouble? Use a psychologist for a session or two (not endless - you're stuck, not sick!) as a consultant on the matter. Be straightforward & tell him/her that you are looking for direction in a one-time consultation & ask if they can recommend a professional who is good at that if they aren't.
Get out your paper, split it into PRO/CON halves, decide how big HATE THIS JOB is in the Con column and you're off to the races!!
(Don't forget to write in the things you might have to give up in the con column and how much money you'll save by not having to splurge on yourself to feel better after a particularly nasty day at work in the PRO category!)
Wishing you the best of luck!!
2007-11-13 05:37:29
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answered by Toward a more Perfect Union... 1
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I would stick it out for the bonus! Then put in your two weeks. Make sure you have another job lined up before you leave though!
2007-11-13 05:26:06
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answered by thatgirl102483 2
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I have a friend in a similiar situation. I'd hang on for the bonus if you can, but if it's really miserable, your health and piece of mind are worth much more than a bonus.
2007-11-13 05:25:30
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answered by Anonymous
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