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I went through a really bad childhood when I was growing up . My father was abusive and my mother was manipulative . Eventually I came to cracking point . My depression is pretty much gone . But
yesterday i let this girl talk to me about what happened to me in my past and everything and ( cuz i told her about me ) and she just started "trying to help me"
It just pissed me off cuz i was expecting a friend not a helper to help me..

anyway My car is going into repossession soon , and i have to make enough money like 250 in a week .So i have been looking for a job frantically. I was on fire , applied for atleast 30 jobs in 2-3 days !!

. but yesterday after that conversation with her I just completely lost all my motivation and everything .even lost a job offer call becuase I was with this " helper girl " damnit , i lost all my control at night and felt all emotional so chcked up on my x-girlfriend online profile to add to the emotional instability i am already in ...what do i do ?

2007-11-13 05:00:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

5 answers

I don't want to get you PO'd at me like you are at that helper girl. So if the lack of motivation persists then just type "self motivation techniques" into Yahoo! web search and a number of informative links comes up.

Hope you get over your anger and depressed state, good mental health, peace and Love!

2007-11-13 14:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 0 0

I would suggest a get away. Even if it isnt far. Find the nearest friend, or if you can, go alone to a calm, peaceful place that echoes serenity, and collect your thoughts. Bring a journal to draw out your frustrations, and insecurities. Spend a good hour or two doing this, but also try and find some good friends that you can connect with to lighten your mood. I've been there, and Im actually there now.

2007-11-13 13:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by ctrapking 2 · 0 0

Lose the girl. See a shrink. Buy back yor motivation on E-bay.

2007-11-13 13:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by sparkles 6 · 0 0

I THINK THAT IF YOU WANT TO GET OUT OF THIS SLUMP, OR DEPRESSED STATE THAT YOU ARE IN... THEN GET OUT OF IT. IF YOU WANT HAPPINESS FIND HAPPINESS. if YOU WANT A JOB REALLY WANT A JOB...FIND ONE... i BELIEVE THE MIND IS A POWERFUL THING. stop MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOUR REASONING FOR BEING IN THE POSITION THAT YOU ARE IN.. EVERYONE HAS TROUBLE AND A PAST, BUT BE BETTER THAN YOUR PAST...

2007-11-13 13:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by NEVER KNOW 1 · 0 0

Get rid of

2007-11-13 13:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by ziaq 2 · 0 0

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