k,i love and hate this guy,i love him cause before we broke up,he was risking his life for me,cause my enemie wanted to stab me but he got infront and instead he got stab he almost died but he is okey now,i hate him cause he did not take the love seriously..i was serious,he toyed my feeling at the same time i love him.So do i hate or love him?
2007-11-13 02:04:57 · 22 answers · asked by rocknroll1313 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*Every relationship has some hate & some love*
As long as you love him more than hate him, the love should rule* You can still love him while hating some of the ways he acts or does things! Good Luck & I do think you love him as well as being grateful to him!
2007-11-13 02:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is very confusing when love & hate are only defined as feelings. Since your feelings for this guy are very strong and clearly mixed, naturally you seek clarity where in fact there is none to be found.
Love and hate can also be understood (more helpfully, I have found) as intentions.
Do you want good things for this fellow? (because he saved your life?) Do you want to harm him ? (because he "hurt" your feelings ?) Do you see how these can coexist? Do you see how they are different ? Do you see that someone may in one moment be willing to sacrifice them self for another, and in the next moment act in a thoughtless manner ? This is a teachable moment here, but you must be both teacher & student - through this dramatic example, both of this man's actions (outside) as well as your own reactions (inside) , do you see the human capacity for great love & great harm that is present in everyone ? There may be many relationships ahead of you, but this principle will change your understanding of what it means to be human - please try to think about this.
It might be as simple as a) forgive him & talk it out or b) keep this brave and noble fellow as a friend who is not quite suited for romantic entanglement.
Good luck,
;-)
2007-11-13 02:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by WikiJo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and saving your life are two different things you cannot put them together. Ask yourself this question, Do you really love him for who he is or do you just love him cause he saved you? Do you believe you can change him to a better person with your love? When you have the answer you will have your decision
2007-11-13 02:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ryoma E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love him. because he is special to you , He risked his life to save you,which shows you he think a lot of you to lay down his life for you to be safe.
You hate how you think he took your love/ or didnt take it.
Maybe he didnt see how it was actually real for you. That he got the impression that you we're just feeling guilty about what happened and that you felt you owed it to him to be there. Have you expressed your honest and deepest feelings of your love to him. Saying that it is real and not just because of what he did for you, that you arent feeling obliged to feel you have to love, But love him because you can.
Maybe you need to speak clearly to him and explain this turmoil tugging at your heart. Men arent always very intuitive to what woment feel about them, or how deeply and strongly we do and can love them.
Maybe you need to check your own heart first. as to see which you hold onto stronger, is there a deeper reason as to why you feel you hate him. or is there a deeper feeling as to why you love him. Explore yourself. Then talk to him and see where his views and feelings are about you and is there a chance that love is alive for both of you. or are you just remaining friends.
Love is very powerful when shared equally by 2 special people.
2007-11-13 02:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by poetbjc64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A love/hate relationship, and people tossing knives.
I mean, taking the knife for you was quite noble - but damn, not very bright either. If it had been a gun both of you may have been pushing up daisies.
I think I'd get a gold fish. :)
2007-11-13 02:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by Inflames 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love him but the question is does he love you? Guys have tendency of liking us as their friend but loving us is something that they seem to have a hard doing. I think you love him and the two of you should and will probably remain good friends.
2007-11-13 02:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by deb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A choice only you can make. But once you come to the Y in the road, you must pick a way to go and when you start walking, don't stop, don't regret your choice and do it the best you know how.
2007-11-13 02:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by Capt C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa the guy may be that crazy for you love....But you should look at his behaviours coz some really know how to act...Just to show you that he loves but no..he mite hav his on idea why his doing that...
But it really depends on the guy..so watch out and takecare of yourself...
2007-11-13 02:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love Him!
2007-11-13 02:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Martin B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most people can't hate without loving first. There's always love behind hate. You primarily love him.
2007-11-13 02:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by fotophrk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋