Why are Christians so ashamed of sex?

Question

They send missionaries around the world to tell indigenous people to cover themselves up and only have sex within marriage.

Answer 1

If they weren't afraid of sin, then they wouldn't need saving, no need of saving then no need of Jesus, no Jesus then no Christianity.

Answer 2

Christians are not ashamed of sex. But they want to see God glorified. Sex glorifies God in many ways...but God designed sex to be enjoyed within the confines of marriage. Don't think so? Let's look at the results of sex outside of marriage:

1. Teenage pregnancies
2. Abortions
3. AIDS and other STDs
4. Homes where children don't know their fathers

Marriage doesn't necessarily result in perfect relationships either, obviously. But its not the institution itself which is to blame - it is a perfect institution created by God. The results I mentioned above are a direct result of having sex outside of the confines of marriage.

Covering yourselves up is an entirely different issue - and I doubt that most missionaries working in tribes outside of western influence are really trying to enforce this. As a matter of fact, I KNOW of missionaries who did not try to do such a thing in the jungles of South America.

Answer 3

I have Christian friends who are ashamed of sexual feelings that they have. And always come to me, for guidance. One of my Christian friends told me she got 'turned on' watching Brokeback Mountain (male on male!), and she felt guilty for this. She asked me if it was wrong! I am open-minded, and don't believe people are wrong for finding things like this arousing!

I do respect her choice to remain a virgin, though. As I'd imagine it would make the whole 'waiting experience' worthwhile! At least, I hope it does. :) She is gagging for nooky, and has more self-restraint than I could ever! :)

And in response, to the poster beneath me. He has only highlighted the negative aspects of sex before marriage.

1. Teenage pregnancies
2. Abortions
3. AIDS and other STDs
4. Homes where children don't know their fathers

All of the above is largely avoidable, by the use of contraception, and spreading knowledge about safe and sensible sex.

I frequently have marvellous sex, and as of yet, remain unmarried. I am now more liberated, confident and less frustrated than ever before. All in all, I am happier! I waited until I was 18 years old. My partner, was my first sexual partner and I intend him to be my only sexual partner. Sex before marriage doesn't always mean promiscuity or blind ignorance.

Answer 4

Ashamed of sex? Your question and example are not in sync. Correcting people that are in direct conflict with the commandments of God(adultery) is not being ashamed of sex. However, I think we all do need to be a little more ashamed of our sexual predilections.

Answer 5

They aren't ashamed of sex at all. They believe it's a beautiful thing given to them by God but it's supposed to be between married people.

Answer 6

It is not about being ashamed, it is scriptural. The Bible talks about fornication(sex before marriage) as being sinful. It also speaks against adultery and sodomy. These are sexual perversions that shouldn't be practiced.

Answer 7

Sex is only gentlemanly within marriage. Gentlemen know that, along with using a butter knife when the wife is away.
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Answer 8

nowhere in the bible does it tell you to be ashamed of sex - it teaches that it is a beautiful precious thing....when treated correctly!! do some research and get your facts right - what is it with people here!!!

Answer 9

Sounds like the gentleman needs a partner!

Answer 10

Being ashamed has nothing to do with it. It's about keeping ones self pure, and that's scriptural.